why women from usa always expect men to pay for everything? there's no such thing in other...

In other cultures, are men the ones who do the asking ?

Thanks to feminism women can now extend the invitation (which wasn’t always considered appropriate before). Traditionally the person who invited was generally the person who paid, so women often pay now, too, although there are some men who are insulted when a woman grabs the check (I have had that experience).

beermeplease · M

i hope sw will be around for another 15 years or so... i'd be curious to know what type of person you'd be when you get to my age.....certainly i wasn't a "tool" when i was 36-40....or even 13 for that matter.

Adogslife · 61-69, M

Times change, but the basis is your ability to provide. If you can’t handle a simple date financially, why should she trust her future on you?

Granted, that’s an oversimplification, but it’s based on reality. Paying has absolutely zero to do with sex. She owes you nothing.

Fight it all you want, but your energy is best focused on being confident, having fun and garnering trust.

If money is that tight, a woman isn’t your problem. You need a better job.

MarineBob · 56-60, M

Ask your daddy

Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F

So you know all the women from the USA and you know for a fact that they're all like this? Wow impressive

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

Women seem to have taken 'tipping culture' and twisted it around the rope of toxic feminism.

Modern women have lists of 'bare minimum standards' a man must meet, among them the man expected to pay for the first date, first days can no longer be coffee but must be fancy multi-hundred restaurant dinner dates, he must pass the 'strawberry test', and more.