I question God's love form

Since God allowed His Son to suffer His wrath for all of our sin when Jesus died on the cross, we shouldnt feel like we should be immune to hardships.

You aren't- you're a one who's suffering. Not everyone who seems to be doing dandy actually is.

There's a lot of Psalms that say something similar. You are not the first to feel this way and you won't be the last. I could give you a slick answer: just have more faith. But that is too simplistic and not what the whole Bible teaches. I hope you experience strength and relief in your distress.

Everyone suffers. Good people. Bad people. Everyone. There’s no getting around that. The ideal of God’s teachings is that if you successfully follow them, you’ll learn to be okay with that.