Do you know a specific person you don't like and just want to mess with them sometimes?

I know it's immature. I know it's not productive or helpful. I know my energy would be of better use elsewhere. I know by letting them get to me I'm letting them rent free space in my head and I know a bunch more reasons why it's unhealthy to focus on how they wronged me, but I still want to make their life difficult in some way. I think it would make me feel better, at least temporarily. Karma will probably take care of it eventually, but will I get to see it when it does and if I do will I even care anymore?

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WillaKissing · 56-60, M

I totally understand. I have seen the Karma come back on those that wronged me 10-fold, and at the time I said good for them they deserve what they get, and after a while I quit giving a shit about them because I came to realize my life is greater than their miserable lives forgave them, but I will never forget.

I only most recently gave up my last grudge like that because I realized that my life was happier and richer without holding onto that grudge any longer.