Do you know a specific person you don't like and just want to mess with them sometimes?

At this point, my preference is to just move on and not give undeserving people any more of my energy than they’ve already taken. I’d rather focus on positive things and the people whose time I value.

Sometimes doing something that will allow you to move on, even when you know you probably shouldn't, is the most satisfying thing to do. When someone really does me wrong, I will get creative, patiently bide my time and then execute whatever I felt was necessary to satisfy my need for "revenge" Nothing to physically hurt someone or their property, that would be dumb, but something I know will disrupt their routine or mess with their head quite a bit, without any clues pointing back at me. Finesse revenge. I guess I can be childish that way, lol

Yes I totally get you, there’s a few people that I wish bad stuff would happen to.

I totally understand. I have seen the Karma come back on those that wronged me 10-fold, and at the time I said good for them they deserve what they get, and after a while I quit giving a shit about them because I came to realize my life is greater than their miserable lives forgave them, but I will never forget.

I only most recently gave up my last grudge like that because I realized that my life was happier and richer without holding onto that grudge any longer.

No. If I don’t care to be around someone, I don’t want them in my head. I don’t want to think about them. I don’t want to give them any hold on me, and if I use energy planning revenge, they’ve still got me.

Not so much these days, but every now and then a certain colleague comes close to be victim of this.

I have a list of people I can't stand and would love to haunt 👻

Someone used to constantly hand me the dirty white boards in school.