JollyRoger · 70-79, M
Hi, I'm a man.
Being a man I know that men (generally - not all) seek companionship - healthy ones are not 'loners'. Men love having the attention of a woman and in particular feeling that the woman admires their personality and mental attributes. In return the man will give his woman the things she needs - physical loving, physical security and social interactions in his world - being proud to show her to his friends. (To me) That is what men do when there are no children involved. It is symbiotic and it is natural. IF your man doesn't fulfill all of these attributes, then you should be careful: He may just be going from woman to woman accepting what she can give him until he wears out his welcome.
In your case, him: having just recently ended a relationship with a married woman, needs examination about the 'wny'. IF it was the woman who broke it off, due to her family, then that's a reasonable explanation. If he ended it - then why did he enter into it when there are plenty of single women he could have courted.
Being a man I know that men (generally - not all) seek companionship - healthy ones are not 'loners'. Men love having the attention of a woman and in particular feeling that the woman admires their personality and mental attributes. In return the man will give his woman the things she needs - physical loving, physical security and social interactions in his world - being proud to show her to his friends. (To me) That is what men do when there are no children involved. It is symbiotic and it is natural. IF your man doesn't fulfill all of these attributes, then you should be careful: He may just be going from woman to woman accepting what she can give him until he wears out his welcome.
In your case, him: having just recently ended a relationship with a married woman, needs examination about the 'wny'. IF it was the woman who broke it off, due to her family, then that's a reasonable explanation. If he ended it - then why did he enter into it when there are plenty of single women he could have courted.
CloudAngel80 · 41-45, F
@JollyRoger thanks 4 ur wisdom! I know she broke it off, and yes she has 3 kids but he has none. Thank u again for this advice! Ill use it wisely.
Set up a meeting with him in person. I suspect he’ll tell you at the last minute that he’s got some inconvenience and can’t make it.
Just relax a bit until you meet the ‘Man’.
One last piece of advice: anyone who feels comfortable having an 'Fling' with a married woman won’t hesitate to have an 'Fling' with you. This is a big 🚩 flag.
Just relax a bit until you meet the ‘Man’.
One last piece of advice: anyone who feels comfortable having an 'Fling' with a married woman won’t hesitate to have an 'Fling' with you. This is a big 🚩 flag.
twiigss · M
To me sounds like it's more you're not hearing. After 8 months he broke a fling off? So he'll get with anyone, single or married, it sounds like to me. If you know someone is married, you don't even get involved.
I think it sounds to good to be true, but that's just me. He'll treat you good, but then go behind your back with someone else.
I think it sounds to good to be true, but that's just me. He'll treat you good, but then go behind your back with someone else.
OverTheHill · 61-69, M
I suspect that this person is not who they claim to be. It wouldn't surprise me that they are married themselves and are looking for some side action for himself. He is likely grooming you as a vulnerable woman who is lonely, and is looking to take advantage of you. Please be careful.
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Michael1227 · 26-30, MVIP
@CloudAngel80 for $$ sadly
SomeMichGuy · M
@Michael1227 This is true. Scam accts here did that.
