Is it real..or is it fate?

So i have been through a HUGE turn around in my life!
I met a very kind person on IG about a week ago. We been having AMAZING CONVERSATIONS and texting up a storm. If its too good to be true, usually it always is, right?
Well,
He and i had so very much in common, almost like a mirrored soul or twin flame....my only issue so far, he doesnt speak with his voice or call, and hangs up his phone if i call him..
He informed me his last relationship was great and most memorable until they broken up 8 months ago. I asked about her, just out of curiosity intent, he informed me she was married and thats why they disolved this fling as he called it.
Im concerning myself with causes of what ifs, because of what all ive been through this past yr, but my biggest question is this: is it real..as in hes interested in me, or...is it fate he wants to keep truth hidden; maybe hes only telling mevwhat i wish to hear too? IDK!
ANY advice, thoughts, or opinions im willing to listen to...his birthday is coming up in july and HE says he wants to visit me in person for it..anybody got a word of advice? Feel free to elaborate some clairity please !
Thanks in advance!

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JollyRoger · 70-79, M

Hi, I'm a man.
Being a man I know that men (generally - not all) seek companionship - healthy ones are not 'loners'. Men love having the attention of a woman and in particular feeling that the woman admires their personality and mental attributes. In return the man will give his woman the things she needs - physical loving, physical security and social interactions in his world - being proud to show her to his friends. (To me) That is what men do when there are no children involved. It is symbiotic and it is natural. IF your man doesn't fulfill all of these attributes, then you should be careful: He may just be going from woman to woman accepting what she can give him until he wears out his welcome.
In your case, him: having just recently ended a relationship with a married woman, needs examination about the 'wny'. IF it was the woman who broke it off, due to her family, then that's a reasonable explanation. If he ended it - then why did he enter into it when there are plenty of single women he could have courted.

CloudAngel80 · 41-45, F

@JollyRoger thanks 4 ur wisdom! I know she broke it off, and yes she has 3 kids but he has none. Thank u again for this advice! Ill use it wisely.