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Title Why do people on here instantly judge me, just because I'm young?
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MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
@antonijamar That's very wise, Ma'am
teenrob · M
This is the web: people are aggressive because they know they can hide behind a nickname
@teenrob Yes. Even in the 1990s, it was found that people tended to be much worse in email--where the interaction was seen to be with a computer, not a person!--than in direct conversation.

Talk with the people in scheduling, billing, customer service when you are on a phone call--they'll agree that [i]not[/i] being physically face-to-face means that people typically say all manner of harsh things which they never would, otherwise.
teenrob · M
@SomeMichGuy … and in the last 30 years this attitude has certainly worsened….
Because they are either insecure or want an excuse to overlook you.
Age-ism. Like the other "-isms", they are judging you for a [u]characteristic[/u] you have, rather than withholding judgment and getting to know *you*.
fenomen02 · 41-45, M
…because you don’t say always YES to their requests?
FatherTime · 61-69, M
yeah people can be mean. I'm sorry to hear that <3
JPWhoo · 36-40, MVIP
I’d love to chat with you. I won’t judge.
WaafaS · 26-30, F
They feel you're not up to their level of maturity.
originnone · 61-69, M
Because they never were?
EnglishLitLover · 56-60, M
what judgement do they make?
Blondelvr2121 · 18-21, F
Some do sadly. Don't let it get to you.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
Do they? I don't judge anybody.
SW-User
I would like tp get to know you
SW-User
Hi there, love to chat
Teirdalin · 31-35
Give an example?
bikelover · 51-55, M
It’s in their nature 🤷🏼
Dawgsfan3 · 41-45, M
I never judge
I find that often young people judge older people against their own ideals because they haven't had a chance to make mistakes or face something that they find challenging.
People get judged for a multitude of reasons, young being one of them… and none of them are right. Just be you.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
Because you look too young maybe?
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@radishjob Looking young is great. Looking like a minor, not always.
radishjob · 18-21, F
@StevetheSleeve see!!!!! Your judging
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@radishjob Nah. Just offering theories.
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
Because they are insanely judgemental....
That's where they get into problem
PinkRose23 · 22-25, F
I'd ignore those people they're not worth your time or frustration.
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Change your age and see if treatment changes.
SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M
You're very pretty!
Because you're too cute.
Renaci · 36-40
Well people on here have been used to catfish, trolls and bullies. So they are probably hypersensitive and suspicious of anything new.
@Renaci Fair point.

 
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