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Title Why do people on here instantly judge me, just because I'm young?
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MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
@antonijamar That's very wise, Ma'am
teenrob · M
This is the web: people are aggressive because they know they can hide behind a nickname
@teenrob Yes. Even in the 1990s, it was found that people tended to be much worse in email--where the interaction was seen to be with a computer, not a person!--than in direct conversation.

Talk with the people in scheduling, billing, customer service when you are on a phone call--they'll agree that not being physically face-to-face means that people typically say all manner of harsh things which they never would, otherwise.
teenrob · M
@SomeMichGuy … and in the last 30 years this attitude has certainly worsened….
Because they are either insecure or want an excuse to overlook you.
Age-ism. Like the other "-isms", they are judging you for a characteristic you have, rather than withholding judgment and getting to know *you*.
fenomen02 · 41-45, M
…because you don’t say always YES to their requests?
JPWhoo · 36-40, M
I’d love to chat with you. I won’t judge.
FatherTime · 61-69, M
yeah people can be mean. I'm sorry to hear that <3
WaafaS · 26-30, F
They feel you're not up to their level of maturity.
Blondelvr2121 · 18-21, F
Some do sadly. Don't let it get to you.
SW-User
I would like tp get to know you
EnglishLitLover · 56-60, M
what judgement do they make?
originnone · 61-69, M
Because they never were?
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
Do they? I don't judge anybody.
SW-User
Hi there, love to chat
Teirdalin · 31-35
Give an example?
bikelover · 56-60, M
It’s in their nature 🤷🏼
Dawgsfan3 · 41-45, M
I never judge
I find that often young people judge older people against their own ideals because they haven't had a chance to make mistakes or face something that they find challenging.
People will judge you regardless of your age, and however else they see you. It's their defense against their own fears.
People get judged for a multitude of reasons, young being one of them… and none of them are right. Just be you.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
Because you look too young maybe?
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@radishjob Looking young is great. Looking like a minor, not always.
radishjob · 18-21, F
@StevetheSleeve see!!!!! Your judging
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@radishjob Nah. Just offering theories.
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
Because they are insanely judgemental....
That's where they get into problem
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PinkRose23 · 22-25, F
I'd ignore those people they're not worth your time or frustration.
Change your age and see if treatment changes.
SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M
You're very pretty!
Because you're too cute.
Renaci · 36-40
Well people on here have been used to catfish, trolls and bullies. So they are probably hypersensitive and suspicious of anything new.
@Renaci Fair point.

 
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