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I feel pathetic

There's a guy in a drive thru I've gotten for several months, off and on. He seems to have tried to guess my order a few weeks ago. I was flattered
But other than hello, he seems shy too. I did get a hey! Recently and he is kinda cute too. 🥹

I got him today and I wanted to say something more than hello but just couldn't!! Ugh I hate being so shy and insecure!! It sucks . He said hello how are you? As I pulled up. And that felt nice... But on the other hand, he could just be friendly in general. I can't ever really read that with guys. I hope soon I can bring up ANYTHING lol.

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JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M

Stop in and order from the counter, and grab a seat nearby and steal glances.

GoFish ·

you has a crush?

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GoFish ·

@Baybreeze ask him if he wants to go out? lol

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@GoFish I'm way too insecure and shy. I'd feel a fool if he was just being friendly 😕

GoFish ·

@Baybreeze oh well

Jenny1234 · 56-60, F

I love this!

Here’s what you do. You write your name and number on a piece of paper and keep it in your car. The next time you go through that drive-through and he’s working, you slip him the paper with your money.

Add a little note that says I think you’re nice. Call me.

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@Jenny1234 He might not really like me though, he could just be a nice person. I would have work up to the note thing, but I appreciate it 🌸

Jenny1234 · 56-60, F

@Baybreeze you need to just try

ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

I think I remember you talking about him trying to guess your order. It's cute you're still crushing on him lol & cute that you're shy so try not to overthink it. I get it though. I play confident but I'm shy too 😂

Just give a small compliment like you like his hair or something. It's easier to give compliments when you're not worried it sounds flirtatious & even a small compliment makes a guy feel good 🙃 we hardly get them so they mean a lot

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@ChiefJustWalks Thank you Chief... When he said hi how are you? I said Good , how are you? Fast, Bec I'm not sure he'd ever asked that. He has said Hey before but this held a bit more🙂 I have no idea if maybe I'm reading into his kindness. He could very well just be friendly.
Hopefully one day I'll be able to do a compliment!!

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

Give me his number. I'll call him.

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@uncalled4 And say..?.🫨[u][/u]

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@Baybreeze Have you met Baybreeze? She digs you!

Scousspeter · 41-45, M

Haha

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

You should just tell him he’s cute… if you’re anywhere near his type he will want your number. Men are good at that. You could even give him yours. If he doesn’t respond then couldn’t you just use another drive through?

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Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@Baybreeze Just tell him he’s cute and ask when he’s working till!!!!

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@Muthafukajones lol well And if I'm reading it wrong, I'll feel a UTTER FOOL 😟😩

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@Baybreeze So then worst case scenario you feel embarrassed for a few minutes. Big deal? You could be getting new strange and enthusiastic cock in all your holes? That should give you some motivation!!!!

Adogslife · 61-69, M

Next time - Pay in cash.
Fold the money and put your phone number in the middle.
Drive off without your change.
Wait for his call/ text. 👍🏻

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@Adogslife I'd feel SO forward doing that. I really can't know he's into me , he could simply be friendly after all. I guess I'll try to work up to saying ' how's your day going?' or something like that, it shows I think he's nice, but doesn't scream, 'i kinda like you'... yet lol

Teslin · M

Start up a conversation. But don't hold up the line behind you 😊

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Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@Teslin That would take guts for me. Lol

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@Teslin I don't know if he's just being friendly either

Teslin · M

@Baybreeze I know, easier said than done. I couldn't do it either LOL

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