I feel pathetic

There's a guy in a drive thru I've gotten for several months, off and on. He seems to have tried to guess my order a few weeks ago. I was flattered
But other than hello, he seems shy too. I did get a hey! Recently and he is kinda cute too. 🥹

I got him today and I wanted to say something more than hello but just couldn't!! Ugh I hate being so shy and insecure!! It sucks . He said hello how are you? As I pulled up. And that felt nice... But on the other hand, he could just be friendly in general. I can't ever really read that with guys. I hope soon I can bring up ANYTHING lol.

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ChiefJustWalks · 26-30

I think I remember you talking about him trying to guess your order. It's cute you're still crushing on him lol & cute that you're shy so try not to overthink it. I get it though. I play confident but I'm shy too 😂

Just give a small compliment like you like his hair or something. It's easier to give compliments when you're not worried it sounds flirtatious & even a small compliment makes a guy feel good 🙃 we hardly get them so they mean a lot

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@ChiefJustWalks Thank you Chief... When he said hi how are you? I said Good , how are you? Fast, Bec I'm not sure he'd ever asked that. He has said Hey before but this held a bit more🙂 I have no idea if maybe I'm reading into his kindness. He could very well just be friendly.
Hopefully one day I'll be able to do a compliment!!