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Normal to just be attracted to women

I guess we women have to be attracted to one another in some way because we need to co-operate, but we don't need to be attracted to men because they will do with us as they please whether we like it or not.

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GLITTER · 36-40, F

Also because boobs

JustGoneNow

@GLITTER

The struggle is real.

GLITTER · 36-40, F

@JustGoneNow damn those models

JustGoneNow

@GLITTER my wife caught me looking and nude girls one time and she said what are you doing? I said I was bikini shopping… she says they’re nude. I said yeah… it sort of escalated. lol

helenS · 36-40, F

Not entirely true. We let men do with us as they please, meaning we are in charge, at the end of the day.

JustGoneNow

@helenS or not at all. 😌

helenS · 36-40, F

@JustGoneNow Ah yes, I heard about that... 😏

JustGoneNow

@helenS you sexy little thang, you. 😘

IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F

The attraction may not always be sexual. I may feel drawn to females, but doesn't always mean I want to be in their pants. It's like being inspired by them, but aroused by the feeling somehow.

JustGoneNow

I’m not so sure it’s normal for everyone. But it’s sure normal for me. I wouldn’t want my love for women to come from a hate for men, though. I’m just me. 🖤

https://similarworlds.com/attraction/lesbian/3761800-My-journey-has-been-long-unclear-and-often-very

Silentpleasure · 31-35, F

Interesting take 🤔

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

Remember the golden rule underlying everything about human sexual relationships...

For men, it's about 'who will let me have sex with them'.
For women, it's about 'who I will let have sex with me'.

And that's about it.

Also women don't require sex/orgasms for reproduction as orgasms don't release the eggs - for them they're purely pleasure. It's different for men - they require an orgasm to release sperm for reproduction.

SW-User

A person who doesn't take no for an answer is pure filth
be it a man or a woman

ExperienceDLT · M

Us fellas are nice to you ladies although you going around pissing everywhere i probably would ask for litter box usage in the house but other than that im a really nice guy 😁

Convivial · 26-30, F

You can't help, and you certainly don't have to justify who appeals to you.

JustGoneNow

@Convivial this 💯

Storyteller4u2 · 61-69, M

I will grant you many men will but that is unfair to those of us who wouldn't. Not all men are one notch above Neanderthal and enlightened men put a woman's needs before his own. For the enlightened men, all that is needed is permission and he will understand your desires and fulfill them to his utmost getting his reward in having been the man she needed to herself be fulfilled.

helenS · 36-40, F

@Storyteller4u2 Thank you 🌷

Sidewinder · 36-40, M

In matters like this, I'm not one to judge for one's preferences, you do you.

fakable

just learn how to repel men
don't wear makeup, don't dress well, don't bathe
and you'll be happy

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@fakable To me those things would be attractive as they show genuineness and honesty. Makeup turns me off bigtime, and i think there's nothing wrong with not washing every day or not dressing for success. Natural charm and appeal is much more of an attractor, but people are so conditioned to fake appearance being the goal.

fakable

@zonavar68
when she sees you
she needs to put on lipstick right away

also
you can be repelled by spraying her with a fresh scent of deodorant

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@fakable I don't need or use deoderants - yuk. Why would I want to have a woman 'repel' me by applying some makeup because I'm not a woman?

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

Sounds like you're disillusioned and with generalisations as broad as that, set up for more disillusionment, though I wish you well.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

Most men are respectful and caring I think. Like all cohorts it takes a small portion to tarnish the whole group due to their misdeeds.

laurieluvsit · 26-30, F

Is that a statement or a question Ms Pauly? ...just wondering

Paulypeeps · 46-50, F

@laurieluvsit Mostly a statement!

laurieluvsit · 26-30, F

@Paulypeeps
Well, I agree there is nothing wrong with being attracted to one another. My sisters and I are all bi and lean heavily in the Lesbian direction.

Although being submissive I don't mind guys 'doing with me what they please' once in awhile :)

You sound like more of a goth dominant girl though, so I get it. Nothing wrong with that either.