Because most likely they don't want to be seen as "Momma" and want a man and not a boy

Didn’t scare me. My husband was 10 years younger.

Im 40 and my bf is 34

Must be nice!

I don't want a younger man. It's not an insult, I value experience over vitality. Younger men are fun in bed, but I'm just over it. I want someone who wants to stay.

For me personally, a younger aged man has nothing to do with it. Approachable, honest, loyal, able to chat and keep conversations, maturity level, education, and yes stamina.
As for other older women..theres multipl factors why older women dont date, they may have been previously abused, they may have kids the same age, etc. I personally tho, i have to be attracted to them or ferl some type of connection..good vibes

My wife continued to get offers from younger men when she was in her 40s, but she did not want to be the "older woman" to satisfy their fantasies any longer.

i dont know of any woman to ever make the 1st move\approach

How sad

nope