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I Love Older Men

I’ve preferred older men to date for almost 10 years now. I dated a guy my age for 7 years or so from high school til my early 20’s. It was not good.

The second man I dated was in his 50’s and was so much better in every way. I got over the stigma of the age difference and dated other men older than me and still a few around my age. The confidence, experience, and sexiness of the older men couldn’t be beat.

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Nunlover

deg, get your old bagel eating arse in here, you got a live one 😏

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

@Nunlover [@degeme]

pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M

It took until I was in my forties before I became "competent" as a lover to my Wife... My definition of competent is her having the reasonable expectation of a satisfactory outcome each and every time we made love. Once this level of performance was attained our marital relationship improved dramatically. She was empowered to make critical decisions and to express herself with her preferences. When I was a young man, I knew nothing.. and worse I thought some how that I knew what I was doing.. Those who think they know can not learn, and those that realize they know nothing can learn everything.. I learned to focus on her pleasure first - a priority and then I was very generously rewarded... its actually not a difficult thing to understand but very few men ever learn it... you are not alone in your preference for older men.. My Wife keeps me very "busy", in part because she is enjoying herself a great deal and I think in part because it is her way of guarding her turf... I am totally domesticated as a result...

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Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@topsgt6 love this!!

pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M

@topsgt6 I think ALL young men could benefit from being taught the skills of being a competent lover from an experienced Woman. They should be taught how to provide a Woman with oral sex and make her pleasure their priority... After they orgasm there is plenty of time for intercourse.. I am circumcised and I do not think overly large but my Wife is petite... She very much appreciates me using a bit of lubricant prior to inserting my penis into her as it makes this pleasurable and comfortable.. Bottom line is she enjoys herself so much that she has me service her each and every morning.. and we have been doing this for more than fifteen years.. If I am sleeping - she will wake me up.. Most men do not have a clue as to a Woman's capacity for sexual fulfilment... I know that once a day is the MINIMUM she will accept.. I am now about the same age you are.. so honestly once a day is plenty for me.. The good news is that like any other form of exercise, regular and frequent activity makes for very reliable performance..

topsgt6 · 61-69, M

@pdqsailor1 You are indeed a lucky man. It's interesting that we have a few things in common starting with giving oral sex. I have yet to meet a lady that objects and in most cases reaching orgasm and some cases, multiple times. I too am not well endowed but I've learned over the years it's not the quantity but quality that most ladies appreciate. Anyway, here's wishing you a long and enjoyable life.

Jlhzfromep · M

Nice to know there are women like you who do not discriminate based on a mans age alone.

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@Jlhzfromep never! If I discriminate it’s in favor of older men.

Jlhzfromep · M

@Lilred2289 very sweet of you. 🤗

Emilie92 · 31-35, F

I’ve always liked older men also

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Emilie92 · 31-35, F

@Lilred2289 yes they are I sent you PM by the way

Alex51 · 61-69, M

@Emilie92 then dm me

Sojournersoul · M

@Emilie92 how old?

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They're a Good Communicator. Through a mixture of work and social life, an older partner has likely gathered the skills to be a good communicator. ...
Great Sex. ...
Deeper Knowledge and Better Discussions. ...
Shared Growth. ...
Mentoring and Guidance. ...
They're More Settled in Their Social Life. ...
Their Life is Stable. ...
They Accept You For You.

Just sayin ,what do I know 🤷‍♂️
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JustGoneNow ·

I’m tired. Be well, okay?

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@JustGoneNow of course. :)

WillaKissing · 56-60

I will date older women than me or my age, but as you can see from my profile women close to or around my age won't date me. I like younger women 30+ that you do not have to put training wheels on, they have lived and know what they are about and seek.

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JustGoneNow ·

@WillaKissing it’s always choice. does that need to be said? I was just explaining my thoughts on my choice. It doesn’t matter. good night. be well.

WillaKissing · 56-60

@JustGoneNow Okay I get it you were talking about your choice. Now it makes sense to me, sorry for any confusion,

JustGoneNow ·

@WillaKissing all good. be well. ✌️

Asianpersuasion · 36-40, M

😊

PassingThrough · 46-50, M

As someone who is getting more and more older it gives me some hope that a woman might think of me this way

dsrice10 · 56-60, M

Then there is hope for me

GerOttman · 61-69, M

I think it naturally takes most guys a few years longer to really 'round into form' as it were. Took me a while at any rate! I wouldn't have dated me at 22 either...

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@GerOttman LOL I’ve heard guys say that very thing. I agree too…it takes a while! But it’s worth it when y’all come out on the other side. ❤️

GerOttman · 61-69, M

@Lilred2289 Hey, we get a lot of s%it thrown our way. Some of us make it, some of us don't.

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@GerOttman I’m grateful for the ones who do lol

Jonboy70 · 70-79, M

I'm 72 you want to try for a record. We appreciate ladies more when we get older. Like to take our time enjoying the delights of a willing woman. Regardless of size.

Bill1372 · 51-55, M

Nice!!! There is hope for us older folk. Lol (I think you have to be at least 50 to use the word “folk”)

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@Bill1372 I think you’re ok :)

Valerian · 100+, M

Yes, we are great and grateful for the amazing young women who appreciate us, as they are lovely wonderful joys. 🥰

brain163 · 61-69, M

It's nice to hear that...............we usually get labelled with being perverts or dirty old men.

Thank you...........

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@brain163 you’re welcome!! :)

QCDog2659 · 61-69, M

Thank you for realizing, and extolling, the qualities of older men.

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@QCDog2659 you’re welcome! ❤️

Dacrowman · 70-79, M

Did anyone ,in all innocence , think you his daughter 🤔

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@Dacrowman it has happened

SmoothKnight · 51-55, M

You know what you want. That's a good thing 👍

Never underestimate us older gents....

LibertineWolf · 51-55, M

Thanks for the positive press! I’m a dirty old man lol

SW-User

Was the maturity the attraction? Their success as men?

basicpoet33 · 80-89, M

You must have " best if used by date" in mind.🤭

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@basicpoet33 I keep an open mind :)

Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M

Lovely and so nicely expressed Lilred

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@Strictmichael75 thanks!!

wolv11j · 51-55, M

Glad you're into us seasoned men. I'd love to know more about you.

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Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@serenecourt101 thanks!

Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M

Is 58 too young

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@Havesomefun2 nope

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Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M

@Lilred2289 maybe I can see you

Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M

Lovely story of a naughty girl
I hope to read more

TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M

I guess she doesn't like middle aged men

Docdon23 · M

ready...

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Docdon23 · M

@Lilred2289 for...perhaps expanding these experiences...

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@Docdon23 ❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@Docdon23 sounds good ❤️

Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M

Thank you we still have are uses

LandOfOz · 61-69, M

Id love to date and love you 👄👄👄

Shytoshow · 56-60, M

Thanks from an older man😘

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@Shytoshow you’re welcome!!

Valerian · 100+, M

😴 good night then 😘 pretty one! 🤗

nightowl99

Smart move LilRed !!! I commend you 💓💓

Shytoshow · 56-60, M

maybe actually say hello one day😂

Alex51 · 61-69, M

How old is the guy now you date

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Wrestlingfanforever71 · 51-55, M

Def nothing wrong with older men 🙂🙂

melbeacher · 61-69, M

Mmmmm good to know !!!!

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

@melbeacher thought you’d like that.

vetguy1991 · 51-55, M

You like what you like

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Alex51 · 61-69, M

Do you love really

Dacrowman · 70-79, M

Here n waiting kitten 🐾❣️

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ShadowWolf · 31-35, M

I've seen many many many same age bracket relationships and marriages fail. Mostly because they grow apart or the man is immature.
Traditionally, man older was always the way to go.
My gf is 24, and she is a Gen Zer I'm a mid range millennial. It just works.