I Love Older Men

I’ve preferred older men to date for almost 10 years now. I dated a guy my age for 7 years or so from high school til my early 20’s. It was not good.

The second man I dated was in his 50’s and was so much better in every way. I got over the stigma of the age difference and dated other men older than me and still a few around my age. The confidence, experience, and sexiness of the older men couldn’t be beat.

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pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M

It took until I was in my forties before I became "competent" as a lover to my Wife... My definition of competent is her having the reasonable expectation of a satisfactory outcome each and every time we made love. Once this level of performance was attained our marital relationship improved dramatically. She was empowered to make critical decisions and to express herself with her preferences. When I was a young man, I knew nothing.. and worse I thought some how that I knew what I was doing.. Those who think they know can not learn, and those that realize they know nothing can learn everything.. I learned to focus on her pleasure first - a priority and then I was very generously rewarded... its actually not a difficult thing to understand but very few men ever learn it... you are not alone in your preference for older men.. My Wife keeps me very "busy", in part because she is enjoying herself a great deal and I think in part because it is her way of guarding her turf... I am totally domesticated as a result...

Lilred2289 · 36-40, F

@pdqsailor1 interesting. :)

topsgt6 · 70-79, M

@pdqsailor1 Very well put. Thank you for sharing. I've spent most of my adult life with the same mindset you just described. When I was a young man I had a brief affair with a married lady probably twice my age that "taught" me how to please a lady. She confided in me that the only reason she was with me was that her husband refused to make any effort to make sex enjoyable for her. Since that encounter, pleasing my partner has always been first and foremost and even at my age I still find myself learning to do better.

Lilred2289 · 36-40, F

@topsgt6 love this!!

pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M

@topsgt6 I think ALL young men could benefit from being taught the skills of being a competent lover from an experienced Woman. They should be taught how to provide a Woman with oral sex and make her pleasure their priority... After they orgasm there is plenty of time for intercourse.. I am circumcised and I do not think overly large but my Wife is petite... She very much appreciates me using a bit of lubricant prior to inserting my penis into her as it makes this pleasurable and comfortable.. Bottom line is she enjoys herself so much that she has me service her each and every morning.. and we have been doing this for more than fifteen years.. If I am sleeping - she will wake me up.. Most men do not have a clue as to a Woman's capacity for sexual fulfilment... I know that once a day is the MINIMUM she will accept.. I am now about the same age you are.. so honestly once a day is plenty for me.. The good news is that like any other form of exercise, regular and frequent activity makes for very reliable performance..

topsgt6 · 70-79, M

@pdqsailor1 You are indeed a lucky man. It's interesting that we have a few things in common starting with giving oral sex. I have yet to meet a lady that objects and in most cases reaching orgasm and some cases, multiple times. I too am not well endowed but I've learned over the years it's not the quantity but quality that most ladies appreciate. Anyway, here's wishing you a long and enjoyable life.

Lilred2289 · 36-40, F

@pdqsailor1 love this!