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[big][center][c=#BF0080]๐Ÿ’‹ How Prostitution became a thing in India ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ[/c][/center][/big]
โš  [b][c=#BF0000][u]MATURE AUDIENCE ONLY![/u][/c][/b] ๐Ÿ”ž
[b]The article mentioned below is [c=#BF0000][u]extremely mature[/u][/c] and is not meant to insult or cause harm to anyone - while it does involve misogynistic tones, it is by no means indicative that every woman deserves to be treated this way - and above all, please do not be butt-hurt over something that is someone else's interest - Thank you! *o*
[/b][big][c=#7700B2]//non-fiction[/c][/big]
The roots lie in sacred prostitution, temple prostitution, cult prostitution or religious prostitution which are all general terms for a sexual ritual consisting of sexual intercourse or other sexual activity performed in the context of religious worship, perhaps as a form of fertility rite or divine marriage. Some people prefer the term sacred sex to sacred prostitution in cases where payment for services was not involved.

[image][big][i][c=#BF0080]Imagine women having control over their bodies and sexuality.[/c][/i][/big]
As in, getting to choose their partners (yes, in the plural sense, not a single partner for eternity and beyond), and more importantly, having the choice to decide if one wants a partner or not in the first place. Add economic independence to the mix, and you have the Devadasis of medieval India.
[quote][b]The first reference to such girls in temples is found in Kalidasa's [c=#BF0080]"Meghadhoot"[/c].[/b]
[c=#666666][i]It is said that dancing girls were present at the time of worship in the Mahakal Temple of Ujjain. By the end of the 10th century, the total number of devadasis in many temples was in direct proportion to the wealth and prestige of the temple.

During the medieval period, they were regarded as a part of the normal establishment of temples; they occupied a rank next only to priests and their number often reached high proportions. For example, there were 400 devadasis attached to some of the big popular temples.

Local kings often invited them to serve in their courts, the occurrence of which created a new category, rajadasis, and modified the technique and themes of the recitals. A devadasi had to satisfy her own soul while she performed unwatched and offered herself to the god, but the rajadasi's dance was meant to be an entertainment.[/i][/c][/quote][image]Traditionally, no stigma was attached to the devadasi or to her children, and other members of their caste received them on terms of equality. The children of a devadasi were considered legitimate and devadasis themselves were outwardly indistinguishable from married women of their own community.

This practice soon fell out with the incoming of the Mughal Invasions and the the European control over India. Soon the whole tradition fell apart because of change in policies and rising poverty as profits moved for the benefit for the colonizing powers instead for the country.

[big][i][c=#BF0080]In a desperate attempt to secure their well being Devdasis approached the administrators of their regions.[/c] [c=#BF0000]What hence became established is classic prostitution where Devdasis hence came to serve their European and Mughal masters.[/c][/i][/big]
[image]At present, Devadasis, even if they exist are nothing more than sex slaves or child prostitutes who are dedicated to the brothel business when they are as young as four or five years old. Almost all of them are Dalits.
A lot of these families arenโ€™t even allowed to enter or stay in the villages. They are ostracized because of their caste. Hence, inevitably, all of them are either illiterate or have received very little education, with no means for a stable income.

[big][i][c=#BF0080]Once the girl attains puberty, her parents inform the community, which in turn helps them find a landlord or someone wealthy to โ€œtakeโ€ the girl.[/c][/i][/big]
The man, in return, takes care of the financial needs of the family, partially or fully, as long as he uses her for sex. There is a huge demand for girls who are virgins, and they are paid more than the others. The girls now join the business at a very young age, when they have no idea what it means. The girls attain puberty when they are 11 or 12 years old, and they get their first sexual partner before they turn 15.

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Roadsterrider ยท 56-60, M
I think the biggest problem with prostitution as it is now is that it is illegal. There is a black market created by it being illegal. Like drugs, making it illegal associates a risk for the supplier, that makes it lucrative to provide the service, men force women and girls into prostitution to enrich the mans wallet. No woman should ever be forced into prostitution, and anyone who does should be hung. But what about the women choose that to get somewhere. Countries where that is the best option to allow you to get away, to relocate. To get some kind of education? We pay a lot of lip service in the US to a "woman's right to choose", but only if the choice is of the correct political bent. A woman has a right to choose abortion or gender reassignment but not to have sex for money? But a woman can have sex for money as long as someone is filming it and that isn't illegal? In the US, that sex deemed legal is controlled and generates revenue in the form of taxes. If it wasn't illegal, it wouldn't be in the back alley, workers would be able to vet clients and go to the police with problems, I had this discussion with my wife, she admitted that she is more amorous if she wants a particular vacation or gift. What is the difference whether I pay with a vacation or cash? Men buy sex and women sell sex all the time, the vacation once again generates tax dollars. Just getting rid of the bad guys isn't enough to fix the problem. The act needs to be brought out of the shadows. I am sorry for the people stuck in this cycle, I don't frequent prostitutes but looking online, I can find escorts for $400 an hour, for a pimp, I am guessing that would be a potential of about $4000 a night, per victim. If you take that pimp out of the picture, another will be ready to take his place. A really good read is "In Our Backyard" by Nita Belles, the stories are horrific, and it is truly all around us but we are blind to it.
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@Roadsterrider wow thanks for the sharing the book - i'll check it out :)
Funopenrelationship ยท 36-40, M
@Roadsterrider well put.
VladG94 ยท 26-30, M
I may be a fan of prostitution and all but I strongly oppose cultures that involves abhorrent sexual customs with underage girls, especially I oppose child prostitution and making five year olds into brothels.. It's fucking sick and disgusting tbh.. I don't care if it's normal for them in their cultures, it's still a very horrendous thing to happen in India or any culture for that matter tbh.. Not to mention Muslim cultures is riddled with these awful things tbh, which is partly why I personally hate Muslim cultures tbh..

And I also feel terrible and disgusted for what's happened in what you went through in your life even despite knowing that you're telling a story about your life.. Even despite knowing that age 11 is when their hormones develop, I still believe they still need to go through time to develop through puberty before they're at a fully developed and legal age as well as not allow pedophilia in their cultures imo. One of the kinds of people I also hate the most are sick fucks who condone pedophilia! Which is also why I'm thankful that I'm a member of the western culture as a whole tbh, for what it originally has been throughout history!

Of course as long as things stay patriarchal and not fall into the whole female empowerment and egalitarianism endorsing the monkey branching in women that's stemming from feminism in the west, then I don't see the problem at all! Which is why no matter what happens Kaira, I'm always here for you!
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@VladG94 aww thanks :) that's incredibly sweet of you :*
Ynotisay ยท M
So you're telling people not to get "butt hurt" about five year old girls in brothels because it's someone else's "interest?"
That's one SERIOUSLY fucked up culture.
Don't get butt hurt now, ok?
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@in10RjFox that's interesting ^^
@in10RjFox [c=#359E00]it can be used for prostitution?[/c]
in10RjFox ยท M
@YukikoAmagi Yes .... Virtually or e-Prostitution .. ๐Ÿ˜‚ But if you are creative, there are more ways to earn.. you may also end up a muse to some creative guy, who can pay you loads .. I suggested for @iamkaira since her language & communication is immaculate ..
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@PhilK thought this might be something you'd be interested to check out :)
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@PhilK i sometimes think that the whole concept of devadasis was also kinda age-old - they became to well habituated with tradition and didn't change with the times - there's one thing to say is to protect culture and tradition but at the same time its another to just blindly walk that path - even now they are still victims of the same tag - they'll proudly say who or what they are and then eventually succumb to the reality of what they'll become
Khenpal1 ยท M
Similar to the rest of Asia , eat or be eaten. Caribbean is the same , although young girls there do not have pimps or are forced to it as irony you can bang them in front of police station. The difference between them is living conditions and freedom .
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@Khenpal1 aww really and how do they approach the guys? what do they tell them to show they are up for it if they get paid?
Khenpal1 ยท M
@SW-User they just go upfront and tell them how much they want.
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@Khenpal1 that's interesting :)
samueltyler2 ยท 80-89, M
Was that your entrance into the profession?
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@samueltyler2 well maybe that's a story for a later day :)
samueltyler2 ยท 80-89, M
@SW-User please let me know if/when you post it.
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@samueltyler2 sure thing <3
Funopenrelationship ยท 36-40, M
@SW-User hm. Open question ๐Ÿค” suppose less social cultural restrictions feels like a good start
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@Funopenrelationship what do you think about girls being raised in prostitution? :)
Funopenrelationship ยท 36-40, M
@SW-User that is an obvious breach of freedom.
What I meant was the freedom to decide for yourself.
Been out abit tonight so maybe abit unclear. My bad
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@Funopenrelationship hehe well how was your night? :)
Winterwine ยท 61-69, M
Interesting bit of education...but tell me, presently ard therd safeguards?
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@Winterwine safeguards against what?
Winterwine ยท 61-69, M
Let's say some activity or client puts you in danger? Or how societh biews you or trests you? I mean, ofgiviallg of unofgicialky, ard you treated ok?
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@Winterwine i have my pimp to take care of me - he's the one who screens men before they get to me - he deals the money part with them as well - and i am lucky to have someone who really understands me as a pimp <3

i am treated well enough compared to what's it like here - but i guess if you really take law and other stuff, i amn't treated anywhere close to nice
magicallypussy ยท 31-35, M
You took a lot time to do this...you must very passionate about this...are you one? ๐Ÿ˜ณ
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@magicallypussy hehe yeah - i am a prostitute and i was sold into the system along with my mummy - but i wasn't a devdasi nor am i from that clan - if i could really trace back my ancestry i would say my forefathers were involved in weapon making which died out when guns and other forms of weapons came in - so i actually kinda stumbled upon this while looking for answers about the trade and life
magicallypussy ยท 31-35, M
@SW-User well okay then. Do you
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GJOFJ3 ยท 61-69, M
Very interesting explanation.
GJOFJ3 ยท 61-69, M
@SW-User but very acceptable in your society right?
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@GJOFJ3 it's illegal - if law prevailed it would obviously incur a lot of sentencing even upto life imprisonment or worse - but its dictated by lawlessness and corruption in the lower levels and goes unnoticed by those above - atleast to those who would care about something like this.

but for the people involved by large and the local society - yes its pretty much normal for them - this isn't the only one though - rape for example, is normal as well - its a crime and heavily punished in urban India - but here, deep in the rural parts, it never really gets reported because nobody really knows its to be reported - that its not right
Nining ยท F
@SW-User I agree, that is not right.๐Ÿ˜ข
It is not right if girl or woman is forced to do something they dont want to do.

If woman choose from her own free will to be prostitute its OK.

But if others force her to be prostitute, it is not right, it is very bad.
Milkshake ยท F
whats the plan once you become old and less desirable ?
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@Milkshake become one of the caretakers and help raise the other girls - or probably live off the savings somewhere or if you're really lucky - get married <3
Funopenrelationship ยท 36-40, M
Well explained. Lets go back to the roots and see how that works๐Ÿ˜Ž
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@Funopenrelationship hehe well what would you like to try out? :)
Allelse ยท 36-40, M
No wonder Alexander the great was so eager to get there.
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@Allelse ๐Ÿ˜…
[c=#359E00]for some it was started by financial problem[/c]
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@YukikoAmagi yeah like me :)
bhatjc ยท 46-50, M
That is deep
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@bhatjc Thank you <3 i am glad you like it :3
bhatjc ยท 46-50, M
@SW-User Your welcome. it was very enlightening ๐Ÿฅ‚
MrBrownstone ยท 46-50, M
Girl in green looks dead
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@MrBrownstone she's probably exhausted - there's not really a whole lot of time the girls get between jobs when working in a brothel especially when you're young and starting out
DesiDudeJ04 ยท 26-30, M
I respect you! โ˜บ
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@DesiDudeJ04 that's sweet but you should probably ask her out before you go onto marrying her ๐Ÿ˜…
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