I want love but I don't think love wants me

I'm basically a man-child with spending so much on Warhammer. It's "not conducive to girlfriends" as soneone told me last night.

But I doubt they'd get past my uninviting exterior to ever find that out anyway lol.

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Punxi · F

Perhaps love will find you....when it stops being a destination. 🩷

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@Punxi I see it more as a force of nature than a destination. Like how people would conceive of a deity.

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

Honestly women hate almost all hobbies.

caccoon · 36-40

That's not true at all. Having a hobby is healthy!!

You're emotionally responsible, kind, thoughtful, and you have a job.

You are not a man child.

Don't give up on love. 🥰

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@caccoon thanks 🤗 I try not to give up but it's difficult when you don't even feel particularly human.

greensnacks · F

That's a bad advice even spiteful I might add. That person it's not your friend. Don't listen to everyone, especially not to people like that.

Hobbies are healthy indeed.

And self depreciation (which is fine for here, bc the nature of the website) is a larger deterrent than anything you listed here.

I hope you find peace before anything.

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@greensnacks luckily he's not a friend but a customer who just wouldn't stop talking.

I don't know how to make the self-deprecation stop :(

Thanks, I hope I find peace too. Going to need it lol

greensnacks · F

@KiwiDan replace it with positive self talk and interrupt any time it pops out. And don't make it reality by saying it out loud.
Lastly, action. Anything you do wonderful for yourself is a confirmation for your subconscious that you value and are wonderful and worthy. Last one did it for me. No amount of self talk helped as much as action helped. Standing up for myself, speaking up, eating better, moving more anything like that.

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@greensnacks That's good advice. Thanks :)

Magicianzini · M

If you're lucky, it will stay that way haha. Stick with Warhammer. It's cheaper, less stressful (even relaxing), and more enjoyable.

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@Magicianzini ok mr wizard

Magicianzini · M

@KiwiDan Not a wizard! .. Just a Magician. Big difference!

But great!

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