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The Dutch law is failing again...

My dad visited me yesterday and proudly told me he set a mousetrap for the neighbor's cat, and couldn't hold his laughter when he reached the point in his story of how the cat screamed when it stepped on it. He even added that he's planning on catching it a few more times until it learns to stay out of his garden.

I looked at options to file a report and police actually has a dedicated animal abuse department. But the actions they can take are limited to taking custody of an abused animal and forbid an abuser to purchase any other animals. My dad does not own a cat and doesn't want any, so that's not going to make any difference. If police take custody, that's only going to make my dad happy and hurt his neighbors unfairly.
Step back for a minute. It’s not about your Da. It’s not about his neighbors. This is about the cat. Could the cat be permanently injured through no fault of its own? If the answer is yes… you know what to do. This is not about your Da or his neighbors. This is about the safety and well being of the cat.
Fluffybull · F
@NerdyPotato How old is he? Is this "obsession" with the cat (or other things) new in his behaviour and out of character? Could he have some sort of dementia?
@Fluffybull he's 67 and the behavior started a few years ago. That's when the neighbours moved in. Before that, the cat didn't live in the neighborhood yet. I have considered dementia for other reasons, but I don't know. A lot of signs are also character traits he's had for as long as I remember.
@NerdyPotato Dementia doesn’t exactly change who a person is… it just reduces impulse control, and makes them more them with zero filter or societal control. I really wouldn’t rule it out. I might have thoughts about being mean at times (as we all do,) but my impulse control helps me from acting on it. Without that we do might do mean things like children do. I really wouldn’t rule out dementia. 🦋
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
I will preface this by saying I am not a cat person. But I cant abide cruelty to animals. However it really is down to the owner to keep the cat safe. Cats are no respecters of boundaries.. And as long as the cat suffers no lasting injury, I believe your father has the right to defend his patch. If the owner of the animal cares about it, they will need to act...😷
Why does your dad have to be so mean???

Could you contact the neighbour and ask that they keep their cat indoors to prevent further injury to the poor thing???

If he's living alone, his thinking could be enough to get a welfare check on him because he is technically dangerous to himself and others.
@HootyTheNightOwl I'm not sure I can, or whether that should be a solution. He's been obsessed with that cat in particular for quite a while though, all because it sometimes defecates in his garden.

It started with hissing at it, then spraying water at it if he happened to carry a water bottle when it was sitting in his garden when he got home. Then he started filling his water bottle to do so when he saw it while sitting in his living room and spraying it when it was sleeping across the street.

Actually trying to wound it (and possibly succeeding) is a new low though...
deadgerbil · 22-25
This is why my cats never go outside. They have no business outside and it only opens them up to stuff like that, as well as disease and predation.
@deadgerbil yeah, I'd like a cat someday, but it will be an inside cat. I'll wait until my dad either dies or stops visiting me though, for obvious reasons.
@deadgerbil That's why my indoor/outdoor cat is getting lead trained and having a catio.
Julien · 36-40, M
NudasPriest · 46-50, M
I don't condone the cruelty, but do you think your dad should have to put up with somebody else's cat in his garden?
@NerdyPotato I know he's your dad, so let me know if I'm out of line here, but I'd really just want to do everything to him that he's done to that poor animal.
NudasPriest · 46-50, M
@LordShadowfire @NerdyPotato @HootyTheNightOwl As I said, I don't condone the cruelty, and spraying the cat when it's not on his property is also out of line. I just wish that cat owners would keep better control of their pets. Cat poo in the garden can lead to potentially fatal toxoplasmosis, so the risk goes both ways.
@LordShadowfire you're not out of line. I'd even help you.
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@LordShadowfire you and me both.

 
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