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A few people might hate what I’m going to say next, but Karens and the PC police have ruined humour and banter for us all, not just men.

Now we’re all more conscious of how offensive everyone finds…almost everything, we’re also living in fear that our true selves might slip out we get into trouble for it. People aren’t allowed to relax and be happy for fear someone is going to shop them. Life is now a banter free zone.

When I first started working in the late 90s everyone told jokes about everything and you could laugh at yourself as well as others.

I remember being at the annual health and safety training, that simple crap you see every year about how to pick up a heavy box or set your chair up properly. Everyone was trying not to doze off. I was sat behind the health and safety guy moving the slides along from a pc, and to wake everyone up I would flash a little bit of my bra so that only the people watching the slides could see. This got everyone quietly chuckling and we got through the training without people falling asleep.

Then there was Mark who in previous years had got himself caught in his flies and injured himself, at the Christmas party would get mortal drunk and whip out his plonker so we could all point and laugh at his horribly scarred knob.

The office was full of double entendres, sexual innuendo and jokes where a some point we were the butt of it and other times the instigators. And we’re close friends who worked hard, never let anyone struggle alone and always hit our targets.

Now that’s impossible to exist. There’s like a Berlin Wall complete with guard towers, search lights and land mines between us all - preventing anyone to really connect with anyone else without fear of career changing recriminations at the smallest gesture. That’s not progress. Everyone should be able to laugh at themselves and others. It seems pretty arrogant to me to think you might live for 80 years and nobody is allowed to say something that offends you in all that time.

And that’s my opinion in a nice neat bow. 🙂 Anyways, have a nice day.
I have no nostalgia for the days when bosses could slap you on the butt or make comments in front of everyone during staff meetings about someone’s figure. Or tell you that in spite of your hard work, you’re not getting a promotion because you have a husband and “John’s supporting a family". Or some of the personal questions that people would ask (and expect an answer) that now they’re a bit more careful about asking. You call it "PC". I call it being "professional" on the job. And basic respect.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@bijouxbroussard I completely agree with you.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@HeidiA you don’t want to read about someone taking their life? Does it bother you that your words may impact someone this way? So instead you choose not to educate yourself and keep on being a jerk because it makes you laugh!
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@Philth @bijouxbroussard lol we can't even use bold now, effing PC Karens 🤣
Philth · 46-50, M
You make a really good case.
However.
I once had a colleague who was a little masculine in appearance. She got her share of the jokes and nicknames. Once I intervened during lunchtime over some remarks which I thought were a little too close to the bone, but no, she insisted that she was 'one of the lads' and ok with it. But then one day, she got some stick off some children. They didn't know her. They asked if she'd had a sex change. She went home in tears, never to return. She took her life that evening. Don't tell me that this was just because of the children. It was the culmination of years of 'jokey' remarks. The children just tipped her over the edge. And this lady wasn't someone you'd describe as lost in her thoughts. She was the 'life and soul of the party' type, chatty, bubbly, cheerful.
This isn't the first time I've had acquaintances take their lives. Most have been externally confident.
Truth is you never know how the other person feels, never know what's going on in their lives. Little comments add up.
@iamonfire696 Are you saying you’re not? You assumed the title easily though so I guess this happens to you a lot
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@BoredDarkLord I don’t go out of my way to hurt people. Why do that?
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@BoredDarkLord it doesn’t happen to me a lot. I was trying to understand what you meant.
WintaTheAngle · 41-45, M
And these guys rocked up
CestManan · 46-50, F
@WintaTheAngle That barber needs to have his ass kicked for doing that to someone's hair.
WintaTheAngle · 41-45, M
@CestManan She paid him to do it
CestManan · 46-50, F
@WintaTheAngle Somebody paid actual money for that haircut? 🤨
My gyod she looks like if that one guy from dumb and dumber had a butt-born baby.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
I don't think there is a PC police, it simply reflects evolving attitudes and more awareness of those around us. I was never particularly 'offended' by sexual innuendo in the office, I just couldn't relate to it and found it pretty tedious. It was like watching a poor quality 1970s British sex farce being acted out by people of my parents' generation. In my experience most people in the office were not really engaged with the 'banter' and only went along with it because they didn't want to cross the office 'characters' (almost always men either senior enough not to be afraid of censure, or close enough to retirement not to care).

I think most office workers today spend little enough time in a physical workp!ace not to feel particularly oppressed by any restriction on displaying theirr private parts during work hours 🤣
Convivial · 26-30, F
We have become too thin skinned..
Teslin · M
I 100% agree. Everyone has to be "politically correct" and this has taken the fun out of life.
All hail the politically correct hypno toad

Turning people into pussies
Rhode57 · 56-60, M
What you say is right society has become a bunch of pussies who cant take a joke . The truest saying applies here "Cry and you cry alone . Laugh and the whole world laughs with you ." We have all forgotten how to laugh .
HeidiA · 41-45, F
@Rhode57 That’s a slice of it. I’m me through and through in my own time. But I’m a bit sad I’ll never make mates like I used to back in those days without us all being called to HR.
God I miss laughing and acting up at work or anywhere.

Since no one can handle it anymore I feel like less of myself. Holding in my funnies isn’t good for my health.
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Aside from middle-class individuals who have no sense of humor, this is mostly driven by those in control of decision making and they are almost always people who sit behind a desk and don't engage with the rest of us in a normal, human way.

There's been some instances where I've been really surprised by some people's attitudes because I expected them to be as uptight and rigid as other people who worked for the same body or organization, but then I realized that they were different because they belonged to the older generation and because they engaged with others in a more free and unrestricted setting, meaning they could be more friendly, natural and less inhuman. I personally think that a lack of humanity and common sense is really what the issue of political correctness and rigid/extreme rules come down to.

But remember, if you don't engage with people like they are people...it will create a negative environment, and you won't ever get the best from them. We need to be able to be human beings and that's essentially what those in/with power are trying to stop.
ArcticDave · M
100% agree. Now brace yourself for the keyboard warrior charge.
HeidiA · 41-45, F
@ArcticDave Haha yes I can hear they keys being hammered
Everyone just needs a cup of cement and to harden the fuck up.
TexChik · F
True . If you care what the Karen’s think
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
I’m not sure how I totally feel about this but I’m honestly not driven to launch an attack on you😂😂👍👍🤔. My first takeaway is gratitude for posting something that makes sense and is worthy of debate. I need more coffee ☕️
vorian · 51-55, M
CestManan · 46-50, F
A couple of times I have told jokes at work that were so hilarious that even HR wanted to hear them.
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
You can still make jokes out of gingers thankfully 😆 I encourage it because if you cant laugh at yourself you are not worth talking to in my books
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So coworkers whipping out their schlongs not being cool is somehow about being "PC"?

mmkayyy ...

I guess that nonsense term means whatever anyone wants it to mean at any given moment
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HeidiA · 41-45, F
@iamonfire696 A sex offender. My you’re a dramatic little thing. 😂
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@HeidiA that’s what it’s called when you sexually assault someone. I guess you haven’t had that happen to you though and you would rather just laugh about it.
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