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Shorethingbabe1 yeah that note scared me i thought someone broke into my apartment. So she really pissed me off. Thats why i threew her note elsewhere
There are no really good answers to such a problem if you live alone without a real support system. We will all need someone's help at some time or another. You can get sick and end up in the hosiptal for days, or even months. Or you could go out of town for a few days or a week. It would be wonderful if you could rely on at least on person nearby who would check on your stuff once in a while. Sometimes you can stop your mail. Depending on where you live you may need someone to put out your trash, do yardwork, turn on and off your lights, etc. Otherwise, a burglar might assume that the place is deserted and rob it.
Depending on where you live, you might be able to ask the cops to do drivebys to see if there is any obvious damage.
Right now it might be easy to dismiss a neighbor's request for assistance but if you live long enough you will face those very real problems yourself and need some kind help.