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I Hate My Husband

I just won’t ever understand if he haves a girlfriend why won’t he stop stalking me🙄 I’ve moved on and I’m doing my own life but for some reason he just won’t leave me alone, I’ve filed for a divorce already but it’s taking a while since he’s refusing so sign the papers, yet I constantly get messages from his girlfriend telling me to give him the divorce, I’ve shown her messages where he’s refusing but she swears it’s all me 😒 I’ve tried filing a report against him for stalking me but the cops said that since he hasn’t harmed me yet there’s nothing they can do!😒
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
Post his address on here and tell us where the nearest pile of bricks are, too.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@Yaya42 It is so scary.
Yaya42 · 26-30, F
It is and frustrating too but I’ll eventually beat him at his own game @JoyfulSilence
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@Yaya42 I hope everything gets lovely for you in your life.
CC67219 · 41-45, F
@Quimliqer can't you go down to your local court house and file a protection from stalking?
Yaya42 · 26-30, F
the crazy part is that this past days he hasn’t tried anything but I’ve seen him driving around my house and there’s a park across the street from my house and I’ve seen him parked there at nights but since he’s not getting close to me the cops aren’t doing anything but I’m going to look more into what I can do @CC67219
CC67219 · 41-45, F
@Yaya42 hes stalking you! Take pictures of that fool sitting there. Go to a judge, protect yourself. You can't live in fear like that.
Yaya42 · 26-30, F
Yea he is and I’m going to get all the prove I can @CC67219
MellyMel22 · F
That sounds rough.. Maybe when you find someone he’ll give up.
MellyMel22 · F
@Yaya42 I can understand that. I’m sorry for your loss, I’ve been there once before too.
Yaya42 · 26-30, F
Sorry you had to go thru that too that’s a pain that can never be explained @MellyMel22
MellyMel22 · F
@Yaya42 Thank you.. That is true.
LILREBELDOM69VAMP69 · 46-50, M
Bs. The cops supposed to take a report from you if you keep telling them that he's harassing you they supposed to take a report and give you options of what you want to do or what you would like to do. At least that's what they do in Ohio
Yaya42 · 26-30, F
Most cops down here in Texas don’t care all they want to do is get out of that situation @LILREBELDOM69VAMP69
ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T
I would suggest getting a therapist or, better, legal consult for this kind of thing.... Sounds scary, stay strong!
ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T
@Yaya42 I'm sorry :(
Yaya42 · 26-30, F
It’s ok I’m sure this will pass 😊 I’m just a little fed up rn but I’ll be ok😊@ShaythePanTransMan
ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T
@Yaya42 Good, I hope so!
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
Just file a restraining order
Yaya42 · 26-30, F
Thank you, hopefully that can help@JarJarBoom
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
@Yaya42 np, I dont know what state you are in so they might not have the option...cops can only step in if there is domestic violence...but if someone is harassing you, you can file something
Yaya42 · 26-30, F
I’m in Texas, and I’ll look into it and see if they have that@JarJarBoom
CalmUnderThePalm · 31-35, M
That's so cruel. Why would the police tell you that? I know why though.
Yaya42 · 26-30, F
Yea because they wanted to get that situation over with @CalmUnderThePalm
CalmUnderThePalm · 31-35, M
They want proof.
Yaya42 · 26-30, F
They had proof the time he ranned me off the road he was hitting the truck with his fist and broke the window cause I wouldn’t open the door, the truck was damaged and his fist where all bloody but they said that since the truck is under his name too that it didn’t count.@CalmUnderThePalm
you need to move to my state 3 or more communications with no response is stalking unless its an emergency
wintersecret · 41-45, M
Which Country are you from..
Cops cant say such thing. Better directly go to a Lawyer.

Other way

Directly ur Hubby's GF and ask her to force ur so called hubby to sign the divorce papers.
Yaya42 · 26-30, F
I’m from Texas and things are really crazy down here, and I have but honestly she’s dumb because I’ve told her so many times to talk to him about and and she always blames me, I’m trying to keep it classy but I’m coming to my limits @wintersecret
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
Has he made threats at all?
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
@Yaya42 uhm no. That is a direct threat. You need to stand your ground and demand a restraining order. Take all the proof you can. Messages. Don't let the cops blow you off. Keep bugging them.
GoldenWorm · 51-55, M
@Yaya42that might qualify for a TRO via the courts. None of thus cop inaction.
Yaya42 · 26-30, F
I did, when that happened I kept on calling the cops and they all told me the same thing, They told me that if he ever tried to do something else to me again to record it and he will be arrested, I called a lawyer and he told me the same thing,this weekend I’m getting cameras for my house in case he tries and comes around, and I’m also going to get my license to carry in case of an emergency but I do hope he stops and it doesn’t comes down to me having to protect myself @JaggedLittlePill

 
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