Do you have emotional ears?
Being disrespected vs you feeling disrespected. 馃
Is it what they said... Or what you are triggered by馃
Is it what they said... Or what you are triggered by馃
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4meAndyou 路 F
There's a lot in that mix, to be fair.
I have been disrespected by "professionals" in my time. 馃槈 I can tell when it's intentional. There's a horrible tone of voice that goes along with it, usually, and if I am face to face with the person disrespecting me, there is a nasty twisted "face" they make.
I can hear a voice saying something that could [i]almost[/i] be nice, but if the tone is dripping with sarcasm, it's NOT nice.
But I also have my triggers, and I won't tell you what they are. I don't want folks setting out deliberately to pull them here on SW.
I have been disrespected by "professionals" in my time. 馃槈 I can tell when it's intentional. There's a horrible tone of voice that goes along with it, usually, and if I am face to face with the person disrespecting me, there is a nasty twisted "face" they make.
I can hear a voice saying something that could [i]almost[/i] be nice, but if the tone is dripping with sarcasm, it's NOT nice.
But I also have my triggers, and I won't tell you what they are. I don't want folks setting out deliberately to pull them here on SW.
4meAndyou 路 F
@Trippin The ex used to take things that [i]I said [/i] and twist them around until I didn't recognize what was happening. In his crazy head he would only hear what he wanted to hear. Next thing I knew, he would be screaming at me, and I would be like, "no..no...that's not what I [i]said!!![/i]