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@Silverflame: I asked because that doesn't seem like a respectful relationship to begin with. If he married you for your beauty and to show you off, and you went along with that, it shouldn't actually come as a surprise that he's not so into you now that you're a little older and thicker and no longer the "10" that he married to build up his ego.
Btw your profile says "C" for couple, does that mean he's reading this post and people's answers?
Btw your profile says "C" for couple, does that mean he's reading this post and people's answers?
Silverflame · 46-50, C
@CinnamonWorlds: it's just me, for now, but I'll delete it lol
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@Silverflame: I say keep this account to yourself. You need some room to think and talk apart from this husband of yours.
VioletRayne · 36-40, F
I can't tell you what you should do. You have to decide that for yourself. You could lose the weight; you could do nothing, or you can leave. I, personally, would leave. They say if you let it go and it comes back; then, it's meant to be. I say, if he's that upset cause I gained some weight then I was nothing but a pretty face to him. I don't want to be that; so, I'd go. There are a lot of people out in the world, and most of them are completely nuts. I'd let him go digging for that needle. He'd soon realize that what he has is a lot better than most of what's out there.
Silverflame · 46-50, C
@DJsmum2006: I now have a belly, and a double chin, and yes he has a big belly just as big as mine
@Silverflame: Tell him he's not what you signed up for either. When he loses weight so will you.
I would understand if he was a fitness guru wanting a healthy looking wife, but if he's fat and sits on his fat ass all day then he has no right to be putting you down. Ugh! Kick him in the balls...show him who is boss. Haha
I would understand if he was a fitness guru wanting a healthy looking wife, but if he's fat and sits on his fat ass all day then he has no right to be putting you down. Ugh! Kick him in the balls...show him who is boss. Haha
Teirdalin · 31-35
Well if you need to lose weight, i lost a bunch of weight by counting calories a bit and taking these.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00H28YG1C/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o02_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
I think they increased my metabolism but I'm not sure, I did see a noticeable difference though.
They're painfully expensive though considering it's like, barely a months worth I think if even.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00H28YG1C/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o02_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
I think they increased my metabolism but I'm not sure, I did see a noticeable difference though.
They're painfully expensive though considering it's like, barely a months worth I think if even.
Well my dear, 36-40 is still young. If you agreed to be the trophy wife, then it should not be a total surprise that he is unhappy you are not quite as hot and sexy as you once were. Then again, something tells me that he has probably gained weight as well.
If you are personally unhappy, then going to the gym, watching what you eat or even just start walking or swimming will help.
If you are personally unhappy, then going to the gym, watching what you eat or even just start walking or swimming will help.
Silverflame · 46-50, C
KandiGhostcat · 22-25, F
down2business · 31-35, M
