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I Am Not Who I Once Was

When my husband and I were young, I was this beautiful, hot and sexy trophy wife, then I gained some weight in my thirties, and now my husband is telling me that he didn't sign up for this, what should I do? I'm not ugly, I'm just bigger?

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SW-User

[c=#7700B2]Were you OK with being a "trophy wife" in the first place?[/c]

Silverflame · 41-45, C

@CinnamonWorlds: I suppose, he liked showing me off

SW-User

[c=#7700B2]@Silverflame: I asked because that doesn't seem like a respectful relationship to begin with. If he married you for your beauty and to show you off, and you went along with that, it shouldn't actually come as a surprise that he's not so into you now that you're a little older and thicker and no longer the "10" that he married to build up his ego.

Btw your profile says "C" for couple, does that mean he's reading this post and people's answers?[/c]

Silverflame · 41-45, C

@CinnamonWorlds: it's just me, for now, but I'll delete it lol

SW-User

[c=#7700B2]@Silverflame: I say keep this account to yourself. You need some room to think and talk apart from this husband of yours.[/c]