I Am Not Who I Once Was

He sounds mean...

[c=#4C0073]I can't tell you what you should do. You have to decide that for yourself. You could lose the weight; you could do nothing, or you can leave. I, personally, would leave. They say if you let it go and it comes back; then, it's meant to be. I say, if he's that upset cause I gained some weight then I was nothing but a pretty face to him. I don't want to be that; so, I'd go. There are a lot of people out in the world, and most of them are completely nuts. I'd let him go digging for that needle. He'd soon realize that what he has is a lot better than most of what's out there.[/c]

Sounds like he's frustrated with something. Maybe not that, but something else. Or he could just be a jerk

[c=#7700B2]Were you OK with being a "trophy wife" in the first place?[/c]

Can I ask how much weight you have gained? Has he gained weight?

that's not very nice from him... Does he think thant he still the hunk that he was...?

Well if you need to lose weight, i lost a bunch of weight by counting calories a bit and taking these.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00H28YG1C/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o02_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I think they increased my metabolism but I'm not sure, I did see a noticeable difference though.

They're painfully expensive though considering it's like, barely a months worth I think if even.

Well my dear, 36-40 is still young. If you agreed to be the trophy wife, then it should not be a total surprise that he is unhappy you are not quite as hot and sexy as you once were. Then again, something tells me that he has probably gained weight as well.

If you are personally unhappy, then going to the gym, watching what you eat or even just start walking or swimming will help.

Not so nice husband. Find someone better 🤔

tell him you can lose weight ,he will always be ugly and a dick

That's not very nice of him.