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I Am Not Who I Once Was

When my husband and I were young, I was this beautiful, hot and sexy trophy wife, then I gained some weight in my thirties, and now my husband is telling me that he didn't sign up for this, what should I do? I'm not ugly, I'm just bigger?

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VeronicaJane

Well my dear, 36-40 is still young. If you agreed to be the trophy wife, then it should not be a total surprise that he is unhappy you are not quite as hot and sexy as you once were. Then again, something tells me that he has probably gained weight as well.

If you are personally unhappy, then going to the gym, watching what you eat or even just start walking or swimming will help.