my dad passed away this morning at the age of 68 after a short bitter battle with cancer.... ugh, i didnt even get a chance to say a final goodbye, 😭 [I Am Chinese]

I offer my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. May your fathers soul be at peace with our Heavenly Father. I pray for peace and comfort for you and your loved ones at this difficult time and offer my condolences to you all.

I'm so sorry buddy!!! I lost someone to cancer once it hurt like fucking hell, it hurt like fuck. I'm sorry he didn't get to have a few more years, but when you die you brain kicks in some pretty good fucking feelings and he'd have drifted away like he was on a warm cloud while sitting in an even warmer bath. He's at peace. It's easy for the dead in a lot of ways, easier for them then us, :) They get to breeze over that line while we're stuck behind and I am so sorry. But you take the time to grieve, you don't be hard on yourself and you be kind to yourself, be loving to yourself and grieve. It will hurt, but you take the time, al the time you need. As for funerals and wakes. I don't like either, so you take the time to look after yourself before worrying about goddamn relatives. I see you never got to talk to him again, so maybe you need to have your own little funeral for him, in your own private place. You eat your favorite meal, then you sit in a place that makes you feel safe, maybe with a photo of him and you talk to him. You don't even have to say goodbye, maybe you just need to have one last chat with your dad. :)

Talk to his soul im sure he will listen, and remember he is in your blood. hugs

Condolences to you and your family..

Just breath. Talk to a funeral home, they’ll deal with a lot of that stuff and direct you on the rest. Talk to a lawyer about the will or any legal matters concerning him.

Right now go ball your head off, it’s going to take awhile

I’m so sorry to hear that. I hope you have family that can help you. You shouldn’t have to plan the wake & funeral on your own. I also hope you’re able to go through the grieving process & eventually heal. 💗

Sorry for your loss. Can feel your pain.

May angels help lift you. May you discover the blessing of strength, grace and composure.

May solace find you.

Lord, please hear these prayers.

I’m sorry for your loss😞
I can only imagine the sadness and stress you’re going through now but I hope it will pass soon.

Courage.

Condolences to you and your loved ones hope you all pull through this loss

I'm so sorry Cat. If you want to have a rant or a chat, hit my PM.

Big {{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}

Oh boy, I'm sorry for your loss 😭

So sorry to hear of your loss.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care

Rip to him, sorry for your loss.

My condolences 😔

Hugs bro

So sorry for your loss. So young. 🙁

I learned a while ago that grief is love, with no place to go.
Don’t stop talking to your dad...he is surely listening and will be with you wherever you go.

I am so sorry for your loss.

May he rest in peace.

Please try to remember the good times you had with him.

My condolences to you and your family.

Condolences..

I am sorry to hear about the loss of your father. If you feel like talking to someone, know that I am a good listener.

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