Say someone you are close to hangs up on you during a conversation Because they were angry that...

bijouxbroussard · F Best Comment

Good for you. The person who ends the contact should always be the one to reestablish it.

sciguy18 · M

There are some good comments already, so there’s not much more to add - other than saying I guess it depends how close this person is to you and whether you want them to remain in your life.

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4meAndyou · F

I have a close friend who does that. He can't deal with stress or argument of any kind, and I happen to know he grew up in a completely dysfunctional home.

We have done this both ways. When I know I was wrong, I will call him in a few days and apologize.

When he does not hear from me, which happens when I get fed up, he calls me and pretends nothing ever happened.

KrackerBash

Anyone I’d say I’m close to wouldn’t hang up on me. I’d count those two items as mutually exclusive.

Somewhereovertherainbow · 51-55, F

Sometimes it’s best to cut ties and walk away ....

Keepitsimple · 56-60, F

Unless they are family which I would promptly call back and tell off I would block the phone number and all other forms of contact. That’s BS.

Livingwell · 61-69, M

I have to agree with your thinking. Knowing you a little, they are giving up a lot by dismissing you. They had their chance... time to move on to someone more deserving. 🤗

fun4us2b · M

Something not right there...could something else be going on? If not then maybe that person isn't as close as you...which is not so easy...

dirge

I suppose it depends on how close they were and how close you'd like them to remain.

Piper · 61-69, F

Unless I'd thought it over and could see how them hanging up on me was in any way
justified, I'd wait longer than several days to reach out to them. After that, it would depend upon how much they meant to me.

TheotherAndy · 41-45, M

I couldn’t agree more, I don’t think they deserve a call back.

Noble · 56-60, M

It begins we’re it ended

Carazaa · F

Just because there was a disagreement, and the phone was disconnected doesn't necessarily mean they hung up.
I would call them and say "sorry we got disconnected but let's talk in a few days. I hope you aren't mad at me."

eyeno · M

Had a friend of 20 years, they hung up on me!

Thought about giving them the benifit of a doubt.
Then I realized all the hurtful things they've said and done to me through out the years which I brushed off.

They tried to call and left a message to call back.
My message without saying it is, "I've a right to get angry which I never have and if I can overlook and forgive than so can you !"

But nope, I'm better off with out a Narcissist..,