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I Am Lost In Life

I don't really know where I am at the moment....emotionally that is, I know that when I go to the Gym or listen to music I am somewhat happy but if I don't then I just feel lonely and pointless....I guess I am just stuck in a pit of despair attempting anything to climb out, life sucks when you don't really have anyone to live it with.

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MarkPaul · 26-30, M

Yeah man... same here; I mean exactly. I want to say, "it's not fair," but I know I am well past the stage where that is productive, meaningful, or acceptable. I feel like I am fighting against a destiny that has already determined my role is to be solitary. And, I am trying to appeal that decision, but I only have a limited amount of progress and no real success to show for my efforts.

Melkor · 26-30, M

I guess we just gotta keep pushing on till to good stuff comes along

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

I guess you're right... I mean, of course you are right. It's hard though. It makes me feel sad and pathetic about myself though and that's kind of self-defeating... I mean who wants to be around someone like that. So, yeah... I get it.

I wish I could effortlessly make friends like everyone always suggests. It's like I'm not an idiot; I am able to think of that on my own. It's that I can't seem to do it even though it seems natural for everyone to do... except for me. So... yeah...

firefall · 61-69, M

... just one Silmaril would make all the difference
(OK, lame joke I know)

From my experience, life has stretches where life is empty and you feel stuck, but life always changes, if you keep going, keep trying things.

(This is also vexing when life is going well of course)

BurntToast

Exercise and music always lifts the human spirit and this is half the battle, you need to find something you feel passionate enough to be absorbed in. In time you'll meet someone with the same interests and goals as you.

Melpomene · 26-30, F

Did you try to make some friends?

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Melpomene · 26-30, F

And different? Just because you're similar doesn't mean you'll get well with that person and vice versa

Melkor · 26-30, M

You need to have similarities with a person to actually have a decent friendship with them so you can both talk about and do stuff you enjoy, I tried a relationship with a person who was different and it ended like nuclear meltdown. Not my cup of tea.

Melpomene · 26-30, F

Not necessarily but it's your choice. If you want to find friends who'll be similar to you, I can only suggest you to try talking with more people, whether you'll befriend them or not, and maybe (probably) you'll meet someone who'll be similar to you. Good luck! :)

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