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So it happened again. I got stood up for a Starbucks date. 馃槖馃槕 It鈥檚 5 minutes away from the off-site class I teach at, so at least it wasn鈥檛 too far. And to think I fixed myself up for him. Ass 馃槕馃槕



I have another coffee date tomorrow, but I鈥檓 positive THAT date will show up. He seems like a nice guy & very respectful towards me.
SageWanderer70-79, M
You might have fixed yourself up for him but thanks for sharing your beautiful self with us. His loss our gain!
marsbarF
Thanks 鈽猴笍[@516380,nudewalker]
JoyfulSilence46-50, M
Sorry about that.

What is it with people?

You are nice, smart, fun, and cute.
marsbarF
I鈥檓 always sweet. 馃槍馃槍 Lol [@68716,JoyfulSilence]
JoyfulSilence46-50, M
[@73351,marsbar] I agree.

馃槉
marsbarF
馃榿[@68716,JoyfulSilence]
SW User
Well it鈥檚 his loss. Better to find out he鈥檚 trash before he ruins your life x
braveheart2161-69, M
Nahh.... At least an ass wipe is useful... Lol [@73351,marsbar]
marsbarF
It sure is 馃槄[@569110,braveheart21]
braveheart2161-69, M
馃拫馃拫馃拫馃拫馃馃馃[@73351,marsbar]
What a weirdo. I hope you have some type of rewards card with Starbucks since thats your go to meet up spot.馃き
marsbarF
Haha. You鈥檇 think so right? But a lot of times I don鈥檛 get anything, even if my date offers to get me something. And if I do, it鈥檚 just green tea. It鈥檚 just a neutral place to meet, that鈥檚 cheap, & there are tons of them around. [@25627,Selah]
[@73351,marsbar] yeah i get it. Its good for online dating. You can see if you have chemistry & stuff & not invest a bunch of time & energy.
marsbarF
Yup. My colleague鈥檚 48 yr old sister is dating as well, but she鈥檚 been stiffed at nice restaurants by guys who say they have to go to the bathroom & then take off. So then she鈥檚 stiffed with a bill that鈥檚 over $100 because these guys also ordered drinks. How deplorable is that! 馃槯馃槕 [@25627,Selah]
GeorgeTBH31-35, M
What again 馃が i hope someone kicks his ass for standing you up
GeorgeTBH31-35, M
[@73351,marsbar] that is one promise i can't keep can try but something things get heated at metal shows lpl
marsbarF
Oh man. Skeery 馃槵[@772167,GeorgeTBH]
GeorgeTBH31-35, M
[@73351,marsbar] at first ya but you get use to it
Do you think they lack self confidence when it comes to face to face meetings? Or maybe they鈥檙e really socially awkward...or maybe they鈥檙e chicken 馃悡馃
marsbarF
Yeah, never even texted me at all afterwards 馃槕[@1134,Haniazed]
[@73351,marsbar] block!
marsbarF
I did. [@1134,Haniazed]
Guys boggle my mind. There's just no sense to some of the things they do.
marsbarF
Awww how sweet & flattering. 馃 And to think you鈥檙e dating my daughter. Lol [@371164,SooperSarah]
[@73351,marsbar] way to make things awkward. :p
marsbarF
馃槀馃憣馃徏[@371164,SooperSarah]
ClassifiedM
[quote]And to think I fixed myself up for him. Ass[/quote] You fixed up your ass? 馃馃槵

Sorry he stood you up 馃槬
ClassifiedM
[@73351,marsbar] That sounds like he'll show up. Why take the effort to reschedule otherwise? 馃槃
marsbarF
Yes. He seems quite legit. 馃槆[@444927,Classified]
ClassifiedM
[@73351,marsbar] Oh that nice 馃榿
Rutterman41-45, M
Ah, jeez. Sorry that happened. He could at least have contacted you to say he wasn't going to make it. Hope it goes better with the next fellow.
marsbarF
Thank you. :)[@121363,Rutterman]

These guys just don鈥檛 seem to have manners or the guts to be upfront. For some of them, they鈥檒l flake on me if they know I won鈥檛 be hooking up with them. They feel like they don鈥檛 want to make that effort for a coffee date first or waste their time. 馃檮
Rutterman41-45, M
[@73351,marsbar] Ugh. So many losers out there.
marsbarF
I鈥檓 not on Tinder, but a lot of guys on there treat it like Tinder. [@121363,Rutterman]
I found out Starbucks is a great place to meet women ;)
marsbarF
No because I only go there to either meet a friend or date. If I actually buy something, I go through the drive thru. [@10778,purepleasure4u666]
[@73351,marsbar] Ahh...I see...I generally go when it is busy. Better chance of meeting someone...
marsbarF
Smart. And what鈥檚 your pick-up line? [@10778,purepleasure4u666]
SW User
marsbarF
Right Lips? 馃槕[@910526,UncleCharlie]
DragonFruit61-69, M
I don鈥檛 understand why multiple men would arrange to meet you on a date and then not show up....it鈥檚 just baffling.
If they don鈥檛 want to go on a date, they shouldn鈥檛 agree on a place and time.
marsbarF
I think I have to date older. Lol. Maybe older men will be more respectful of my time. [@475592,Dragon56]
trackman1156-60, M
Sorry that happened. I don鈥檛 know the story but certainly sounds rude an I鈥檓 sure it鈥檚 frustrating.
Tomorrow sounds encouraging. Respectful is an impressive quality. 馃榾
marsbarF
Yes, I already confirmed with him. He鈥檚 a commercial real estate agent, so I can track him down if need be. Lol [@701587,trackman11]
uncalled451-55, M
You're such a catch! I apologize for the less-than-discerning taste displayed by members of my gender.
uncalled451-55, M
[@73351,marsbar] I'm so ashamed. Dudes, your game ain't so strong!
marsbarF
They have NO game [@329500,uncalled4]
uncalled451-55, M
[@73351,marsbar] Agreed.
How did today's go?
marsbarF
No married guys Stray. Lol [@695370,Straylight]

Awww you鈥檙e sweet looking out for me while dissing your younger brother. 馃槄馃槀
[@73351,marsbar] Two of my favorite pastimes. 馃ぃ
marsbarF
馃槅馃檶馃徏[@695370,Straylight]
SW User
Thats why i always have a back up plan whenever someone doesn't show up. 馃槀 I hate that. Lols
marsbarF
That鈥檚 why I always pick a Starbucks close to me. 馃榿[@813091,FriesAndSundae]
SW User
[@73351,marsbar] great idea. Hahahahah
marsbarF
馃憣馃徏[@813091,FriesAndSundae]
braveheart2161-69, M
Good luck babe...馃馃馃 Time wasters you need like a hole in the head ffs
marsbarF
Yeah. That鈥檚 why I always pick a Starbucks that is less than 15 minutes from me, just in case I have another flaker. [@569110,braveheart21]
braveheart2161-69, M
Even so love... It don't take buts few seconds to msg or call n say sorry can't make it... Just a matter of good manners and thoughtfulness... [@73351,marsbar]
marsbarF
You鈥檇 think so right? [@569110,braveheart21]
wildbill8336-40, M
Therein lies your problem, anyone who drinks that dirty dish water isn't relationship material... 馃
marsbarF
馃檮馃槕[@597698,wildbill83]
guymanly226-30, M
Well hopefully he does
guymanly226-30, M
Are you sure?[@73351,marsbar]
marsbarF
Totally sure [@305341,guymanly2]
guymanly226-30, M
You鈥檙e right, they鈥檙e bubbly when you twerk[@73351,marsbar]
AnthonyJ61-69, M
What???? That's terrible! 馃槙馃槙馃槙
marsbarF
It is. But it doesn鈥檛 sting as much as the first time it happened. Now I鈥檓 more on high alert. [@633242,AnthonyJ]
AnthonyJ61-69, M
[@73351,marsbar] Even the fact that it's happened more than once is terrible 馃様
marsbarF
I know 馃槙[@633242,AnthonyJ]
rjc3656-60, M
Sorry to here that has happened to you. Just remember it is their loss.
marsbarF
[@810330,rjc36] Thank you 馃槉
rainguy41-45, M
Damn it. Sorry to hear that.馃槨
marsbarF
Can you run them over with your train Toots? 馃馃槀[@593738,rainguy]
rainguy41-45, M
[@73351,marsbar] yes!馃ぃ
marsbarF
Toot! Toot! Yeahhhhh!! 馃槅[@593738,rainguy]
sunrisehawk61-69, M
His loss as you are a lovely person...and quite pretty...lol
marsbarF
Thank you 馃槆[@396546,sunrisehawk]
CheshireCatalyst36-40, M
He'll never know what he missed out on! 馃
marsbarF
You better believe it Professor 馃檭馃槈[@337880,ChasingBrainBros]
SW User
His loss. You look beautiful. 馃挌
marsbarF
Thank you 馃槆[@1018655,NieveBlanca]
SW User
You鈥檙e welcome [@73351,marsbar]
PTCdresser5761-69, M
It is that guy's loss Mars! You are always so beautiful!馃槝
DearAmbellina211341-45, F
Fuck that first guy!! His loss. 馃拋馃徎鈥嶁檧锔
marsbarF
Lol. I know. [@831314,DearAmbellina2113]
Pinkstarburst51-55, F
You look beautiful and it's his loss. 馃
marsbarF
Thank you 馃[@6912,Pinkstarburst]
Turtlepower31-35, M
Man, people suck. I'm sorry <3
marsbarF
Yeah, if they didn鈥檛 suck so much, who knows what could鈥檝e happened if we met. [@565666,Turtlepower]

Thanks 馃
Leftyss51-55, M
Hope he shows. Dumb asses for not!
marsbarF
Oh well...such is the dating world. Full of flakes, catfish & asses. Lol [@113588,Leftyss]
Degbeme61-69, M
馃が No body stands up our Marsie. 馃 馃挏
marsbarF
You tell them Deggy! 馃槄馃槝[@72117,Degbeme]
Hoodski31-35, M
Damn I鈥檓 sorry hun
marsbarF
It鈥檚 ok. Thanks 馃槉[@756559,Bubbaj]
SailorMarzF
Want me to kick his ass?
marsbarF
Yes please. Clothes line him like in wrestling 馃槄[@20628,SailorMarz]
CaptainKirk36-40, M
I鈥檒l knee cap him for ya
marsbarF
Ohhh goody! 馃槄馃槀[@351760,Uhtred2008]
Sonuraaj201922-25, M
You're pretty
marsbarF
[@1018108,Sonuraaj2019] Thank you :)

 
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