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I Am Sick Of Having Prove Myself To Other People

[big][center][i][c=#BF0080]I am what I am and you can either take it or leave it[/c][/i][/center][/big]
This isn't the first time I have got someone ask me this and I am sure this won't be the last time either. And no, I am not going to entertain the request simply because I don't owe a validation to some random stranger on the internet.

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[b][i][c=#BF0000][u]Its okay if you don't wanna take me for who I am or believe me. I never asked you to.[/u][/c][/i][/b]

But being on EP or SW or any other social network - I get to my right to privacy and my choice on what I choose to share and just because you fancy it, I am not going to prove myself to everyone over and over and nor do I feel right doing the SW validation test.

It may seem simple and right to you that its only fair for everyone but it does not to me - if you don't believe me, then don't - go ahead and block me, I couldn't care less but I am not going to bend to what you want just because you feel you've earned that right to some sense of entitlement.
Les02 · 26-30, F
I’m with you Kaira, I am what I am and won’t apologise to anyone for that. I also have no intentions of doing any validation test. The only reason I’ve joined any social network site is because my doctor recommended as a distraction, so like you I couldn’t give a damn if they were to block me.
Les02 · 26-30, F
@SW-User Just remember Kaira, if you go you’re taking me with you and I can be quite a hand full.

Ahem let me check something, brb, I mean two hand fulls + 😄
SW-User
@Les02 😅😋
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@Les02 @SW-User Both you ladies are hand fulls 😇😅
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
mysteriouslion · 31-35, M
How people can't judge between real or fake.. and there maybe a few chance when they are not able to judge.. but by ur profile none can say you are fake..
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@mysteriouslion they can call me fake - i am not looking for some kind of universal acceptance - but the point is, i am not seeking anyone's validation either, so if they don't believe me, that's fine honestly - they can ignore or block me
mysteriouslion · 31-35, M
@SW-User right why to bother to text if they don't believe what you are..just reply with a middle finger to such people
Canicu69 · 70-79, M
I think you are beautiful inside and out. I read some of your posts before I read your bio. You are well rounded. Stay away from drugs and alcohol. Good luck and be proud of who you are
FunReader55 · 51-55, M
You can only be you! Screw them! I always give people like that’s a stupid answer.. let them spin on it!! 😀
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bhatjc · 46-50, M
Fuck them girl. you are who you are. Live it to the fullest
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@bhatjc thanks :)
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@SW-User 🌹
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Some people's sense of entitlement never ceases to amaze me. No one is owed a damn thing on a social media site.
The man obviously has had some bad experiences with such things. His words didn't seem angry feeling or really too demanding. It sounded just like a request he wanted filled. Plus he was willing to reciprocate.
You, of course, have no obligation to fulfill his request. You two are perfect strangers and owe each other nothing.
Like a radio if people don't like it they can always change the channel.
You must be sick of being requested to prove yourself all the time.

🐎 I'm lucky I guess, people must believe I'm a fucking horse! 🐎
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@Majorlatency 😂 well there are other ways that you're a fucking horse as well 😏
@SW-User True.. true.. the size of my feet are a dead giveaway.. ! ❤
Same here. People can believe me or not. Whether or not they believe me is up to them. Websites like this are not a proving ground.
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@MsAnnThropy yep :)
It’s just like you said. We’re not looking for validation. 😇

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ToyMan · 56-60, M
Well said. If you can't take someone at their word then in my mind everyone should move along.
@ToyMan What about this. I take people at their word. But I've come across some that will tell you a whole believable lie-life until they over exaggerate on one or two details. It's at that point I start to question everything they tell me. Eventually, you start to question the credibility of everything online.
It is a downward spiral at that point. If one lets that thought continually run through one's mind, nothing would ever be able to prove evidence of someone's validity. At some point, you have to strike a balance and accept at least some level of what people (or bots) are saying what's true.
ToyMan · 56-60, M
@froggtongue Well I'm not saying you can't question. There is nothing on SW that is so serious that it effects my personal real life. So I assume people are truthful. If they're not it usually comes out pretty quickly. To be honest, to me it's much harder to keep up lies as you have to remember what you said.
VladG94 · 26-30, M
I'd say you're more real than some like to think. 😏
VladG94 · 26-30, M
@SW-User What I mean is fuck them, because I believe you're quite real
SW-User
@VladG94 <3 :*
VladG94 · 26-30, M
@SW-User And something to add, your naked body is still sexy as fuck tbh 😎
ron122 · 41-45, M
You're right you can't let those people bother you. Just be yourself and ignore them. Seems like you have the right attitude about it
NeoNeo · 41-45, M
Lol, he clearly is obsessed with the term "real" where he has no clue that so called real people can also be liars and cheat.
kres1 · 41-45, M
be thankfull you are given a life in this world. one day when you are older working together may show you more
ineedadrink · 51-55, M
Keep on doing what you do, the rest of us appreciate it. And thank you.
Khenpal1 · M
Oh snap , just bend over :))))
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@Khenpal1 😅 you always have a way with me.. you know 😋
Wolf90 · M
Well said! Couldn't agree more!
Atrevido1 · 61-69, M
Beautiful, strong and eloquent.
Ozdharma · 61-69, M
Yes be yourself and proudly so
Cervincio · 61-69, M
Feed 'em fish heads.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Fuck them , I believe you
antonioio · 70-79, M
Well said 👍️
SW-User
Afc71 · 51-55, M

 
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