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I Am Not The Other Woman

I'm not sure why women think they can enforce nonogamy for perpetuity. That concept is irrational. At some point, the spouse is going to wake up to reality and either outsource or throw her away like she deserves, just like an old bottle. No deposit, no return.

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Flenflyys · 31-35, F

Someone got burned...

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IronHamster · 56-60, M

@TheSaint: poor babydoll.

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SoFine · 46-50, F

With Long Term relationships - they are a way to get rid of all the insecurities from childhood.

Each person will push the others insecure buttons. So they can work on them or not.

The balance of work/family/money/clean/health is in the mix with the insecurities.

Men then hide from facing their issues - by having a distraction - One on the side.

In most cases it makes their life harder to balance - not one female but two.

Sex will always be complicated - Men peak at 18-21 Women peak at 34-38

If the above is your attitude - then don't have a Long Term- be honest with your women, then they will know what they are in for.

Be honest - if you can.

IronHamster · 56-60, M

@SoFine: Honesty is the best policy. It is too bad that people fake sex drive then renege after the commitments are made.

In my case, it all dropped off after the ring was on.

I have found out something in my research. It's not just women that are deniers. Men are, too. This creates beneficial options for us victims.

At fifty, I can still fuck for hours on end, in tune with my partner. My volume of cum may have peaked in my twenties, but wine and whiskey are not the only things that get better with age.

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

That works both ways...why do u think men get denied sex all the time?

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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

@IronHamster: You need a lawyer for the financial end of a marriage not to be told your free at last.

IronHamster · 56-60, M

@Quietrumble: As long as we keep a happy front going for the kids, we are in a stalemate.

About two months ago my wife made it clear she was done talking about our problems and asked me not to bring them up again. I call this a "don't ask don't tell policy".

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

@IronHamster: only you can decide if that's how you want to live and it's a painful process to find any peace with.

MsMontgomery · 51-55, F

You make marriage sound so wonderful. I don't know why everyone doesn't do it. LOL

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IronHamster · 56-60, M

@MsMontgomery I'm so sorry to hear that. I know that if I could not meet my partner's needs, I'd beg her to find someone that could.

We never had the good times.
We never had normalcy. I used to tell myself that, in time, my sex drive would fall off and her sex drive would increase. Neither did. I've been a very horny but faithful man for twenty-three years, but I'm past my breaking point.

MsMontgomery · 51-55, F

@IronHamster 23 years!? Wow.., that's really sad if you never had normalcy & this hell started at the beginning... I'm sorry. Not a lot of answers from me, though...if I had that magic answer I'd write a book & make a billion dollars. Lol

IronHamster · 56-60, M

@MsMontgomery It has taken me a long time to face this. I've always had hope, and hope can get you through things you must endure. It can also extend the misery of things you could have avoided.

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IronHamster · 56-60, M

@TheSaint: I bet you whack off to me tonight.

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IronHamster · 56-60, M

@TheSaint: Yes. Your pathetic nature continues to surpass my expectations.

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IronHamster · 56-60, M

@TheSaint: Ironic.

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IronHamster · 56-60, M

@TheSaint: That is funny coming from a guy that can't even hit the prostate.

My old girlfriends were hooked on my cervical massages. It was a specialty.

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