I Am Not The Other Woman

I'm not sure why women think they can enforce nonogamy for perpetuity. That concept is irrational. At some point, the spouse is going to wake up to reality and either outsource or throw her away like she deserves, just like an old bottle. No deposit, no return.

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MsMontgomery · 56-60, F

You make marriage sound so wonderful. I don't know why everyone doesn't do it. LOL

IronHamster · 56-60, M

@MsMontgomery They say marriages are mad in heaven. WTF happened to mine.

MsMontgomery · 56-60, F

@IronHamster they seem to start out that way..& honestly, mine is wonderful except for that one (important) thing. After years of normalcy, the nothingness started...have no idea why.
Maybe it's a test from the government. 😂

IronHamster · 56-60, M

@MsMontgomery I'm so sorry to hear that. I know that if I could not meet my partner's needs, I'd beg her to find someone that could.

We never had the good times.
We never had normalcy. I used to tell myself that, in time, my sex drive would fall off and her sex drive would increase. Neither did. I've been a very horny but faithful man for twenty-three years, but I'm past my breaking point.

MsMontgomery · 56-60, F

@IronHamster 23 years!? Wow.., that's really sad if you never had normalcy & this hell started at the beginning... I'm sorry. Not a lot of answers from me, though...if I had that magic answer I'd write a book & make a billion dollars. Lol

IronHamster · 56-60, M

@MsMontgomery It has taken me a long time to face this. I've always had hope, and hope can get you through things you must endure. It can also extend the misery of things you could have avoided.