I Am Not The Other Woman

I'm not sure why women think they can enforce nonogamy for perpetuity. That concept is irrational. At some point, the spouse is going to wake up to reality and either outsource or throw her away like she deserves, just like an old bottle. No deposit, no return.

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SoFine · 46-50, F

With Long Term relationships - they are a way to get rid of all the insecurities from childhood.

Each person will push the others insecure buttons. So they can work on them or not.

The balance of work/family/money/clean/health is in the mix with the insecurities.

Men then hide from facing their issues - by having a distraction - One on the side.

In most cases it makes their life harder to balance - not one female but two.

Sex will always be complicated - Men peak at 18-21 Women peak at 34-38

If the above is your attitude - then don't have a Long Term- be honest with your women, then they will know what they are in for.

Be honest - if you can.

IronHamster · 56-60, M

@SoFine: Honesty is the best policy. It is too bad that people fake sex drive then renege after the commitments are made.

In my case, it all dropped off after the ring was on.

I have found out something in my research. It's not just women that are deniers. Men are, too. This creates beneficial options for us victims.

At fifty, I can still fuck for hours on end, in tune with my partner. My volume of cum may have peaked in my twenties, but wine and whiskey are not the only things that get better with age.