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TexChik 路 F
Find the courage to NOT contact him . It was only sexual for him ( your past relationship ) , and you don't want a pity f***! Cry if you need to ... but have enough sense to know that you and he are done .., go hang with your friends ...enjoy them ... depend on them to help you . This will pass
StonerGirl69 路 26-30, F
@TexChik that's normally good advice but I felt worse when getting home from being with friends... I'm better alone.
sogdianrock 路 61-69, M
hi Kels97
block him again.
Get a sheet of paper and a pen and map your thought processes. When you think of something write it down: like: he has a new friend, he is all I want right now; I know I should not talk to him. Make sense of your unconscious thoughts and feelings on the paper. Sort yourself out basically. Reflect on the truth that relationships rarely last for life and therefore it is natural that they have an arc from start to finish.
Everyone has to learn this mapping process so they can make sense of feelings and move on.
Best wishes
:)
block him again.
Get a sheet of paper and a pen and map your thought processes. When you think of something write it down: like: he has a new friend, he is all I want right now; I know I should not talk to him. Make sense of your unconscious thoughts and feelings on the paper. Sort yourself out basically. Reflect on the truth that relationships rarely last for life and therefore it is natural that they have an arc from start to finish.
Everyone has to learn this mapping process so they can make sense of feelings and move on.
Best wishes
:)
Whatsnormal 路 36-40
Obviously it was about him and nothing about you... he sounds like a control freak... if it upset you this bad maybe you should avoid him? And find someone that cares about your feelings.
dale74 路 M
If you were here I would hold you while you cry till you are finished
Kevin 路 M
I would treat you like a princess