I Do Not Understand Racist People

Oooooooh, come on now... Don't act like Asians aren't super racist toward other Asians... If I had a dollar for every time I heard a Japanese person shit-talking Chinese people...

I certainly don't think that it's mostly people who are Caucasian who are making jokes about people who are Asian, that my friend is a racist remark in and of itself.

In some Asian countries, many people have plastic surgery to remove their Epicanthic fold, and to remove some of the material in the eyelid. As well, Asian people are not the only people who have an Epicanthic fold. I am not Asian myself, and yet I have an Epicanthic fold.

No matter your race or ethnicity, skin color, country of origin, nationality there will always be others who will find humor, racist and not in who you are. Caucasians, people of African decent, Asians, East Asians, South Americans, Slavic, Middle Eastern and so on and so on.

You can either choose to be butthurt, you can ignore it, or you can choose to see humor in whatever it is that is being said. Personally, the world is a far better place when you choose to either ignore that type of thing, or see the humor in it if in the form of humor. If it's blatant racism then you can always respond, or as the Native North Americans practiced with their children when they displayed behavior they did not wish to promote, nor did they condone they would ignore the person as if they did not exist.

What I don't feel is right, is to say one race is more prejudiced than another, no matter the race. You cannot possibly know this unless you can cite research that was done on this subject.

You might find this map of the world, and the study that was done that specifically relates to racism interesting:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2325502/Map-shows-worlds-racist-countries-answers-surprise-you.html

If you look at that map, the top countries in the world, that score the lowest on racism happen to also be countries more populated by Caucasians. That is a fact, and I just cited it. You might try the same when posting things of an inflammatory nature.

Racism isn't ever a joke, and people who try to xcuse their bad behaviour by calling it joking are simply not worthy of respect from anyone. And in truth, the only people who give them any are others who are just as bad. They all seem to think that it's great to be respected by so many, but none of them realize that the respect is hate based. If I can't get respect based on something more deserving than hate, then I'd rather be a hermit and live away from everyone.

I actually wonder what is a proper way to say I like "mongoloid" eyes in English. Everything that comes to my mind is considered racist. Even mongoloid.
What is the right expression then?

Honestly it's probably some dude confused about the fact that he thinks you another dude is cute.

remind me what's an epicanthic fold again?

So you just said your eyes look smaller.😒

Most of us tell jokes about people who are different from us. Often even about people who come from a different city. I don't think we can ever ban it and there's a different between some light hearted humor and actual racism.