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What makes love turn to hate?

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F Best Comment
Love and hate are opposites, but they both are founded in passion. And when you love someone, you expect so much from them, and if they break your expectations, it turns to hate because they've hurt you in a way that's fundamentally worse BECAUSE they love you.

It's why the first suspects in murder cases are always the spouse, boyfriend/girlfriend, siblings, or children. It's never like, a friend, coworker you got along with, classmate. You hear about people killing someone they love. You never hear about someone killing someone they just like.
SW-User
@BlueMetalChick this is a great answer actually thank you
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@SW-User It's something I think about a lot, because of my weird disposition with love lol
Slade · 56-60, M
@BlueMetalChick Not exactly brain surgery. Who kills, and ruins their own lives, over a casual relationship that is insignificant by nature.

Of course it's obviously done by someone who has a giant role in your life. Someone who's actions actually [b]affect[/b] your life

I don’t think love turns into hate. They’re different things which people often mistake. Love can cause hurt which could possibly lead to hate, but love itself is on the opposite spectrum of hate.
FunkyFlow · 36-40, F
For me its usually when I've fooled myself. The other person was never who I embellished them to be. Then I'm angry at myself and its easy to hate their guts.
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Yeah I understand that so well@FunkyFlow
Miram · 31-35, F
Hatred conquers and replaces love when there is great pain. Betrayal, abandonment, loss, abuse..
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Sometimes it does I guess yes. Some just keep loving @Miram
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I'm not capable of hate..I'm weird
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@SW-User you’re just a sweet heart is all
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@SW-User Thank you 😊🥰
royalblue1193 · 31-35, M
no communication or miscommunication
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Yeah that’ll do it @royalblue1193
zorroo · 56-60, M
the word hate is not in my dictionary.
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That’s a wonderful place to be @zorroo
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@OldMan70 yes. Particularly in the bedroom
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I was hoping the teachers of SW could tell me. 🤔
Of course they do, why else do you think I’m not in paid therapy 😌@SW-User
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I’m pretty sure paid therapy is worth it for the medication alone @DrScissorhands
I have enough here to last three meltdowns (not that I’m going to take any of it) 😐 @SW-User
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A great betrayal. A dagger into the heart.
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@SW-User yeah that’ll do it
ExtremeNext · 31-35
When the $ runs out
Notanymore · 36-40, M
@ExtremeNext that was after the first date
ExtremeNext · 31-35
@Notanymore you look broke 🙄
Notanymore · 36-40, M
@ExtremeNext it's by design
Allelse · 36-40, M
Living together'll do it.
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It can happen @Allelse
Being let down
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Yeah..and when it’s repeated over and over @BeefySenpie
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Selfishness
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Yes @SW-User
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
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@Keepitsimple yeah. Trust can never be rebuilt the same in my experience
Notanymore · 36-40, M
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