When was the last time you got laid? Solo does NOT count.

The divorce rate in marriage is 50% - which correlates to the percentage of those who are NOT getting laid regularly. Porn, masturbation inside committed relationships, infidelity - and yes Divorce are fuelled by people who do not get enough sex inside their relationship.

Stable, successful marriages INCLUDE regular mutually satisfying sexual activity. My ONE and only rule is that she gets there first and I am pretty relentless in my pursuit of this. My Wife enjoys herself and a Woman who enjoys herself and has this as a reasonable expectation tends to want to participate more frequently than one that does not have this expectation.

My Wife decided years ago that we would make love each morning - every day. Now I am not saying that it has to be every day, hell I never in my wildest fantasy dreamed as much but a two to three times a week there is nothing wrong with either. My Wife's point is that she likes it and there is no good reason NOT to make love every day and every good reason to do so.

The point being that the world would be a whole lot better off with this problem fixed. For the record I don not look at porn, I do not masturbate and I am totally monogamous and faithful and we have been together for close to thirty years. All we are doing is being true to the forces that attracted us to one another in the first place. To us nothing has changed.

True enough but I could not change the group title - I had to go with what existed. Regularity and Frequency are the issues I was trying to convey and to make the point about. Yes life intervenes and a deployment is a terrible burden upon a family who make the sacrifices of separation, service, economic deprivation and at times injury either temporary or permanent and even destruction through loss. These are factors beyond personal control but the losses occur also when they are in control and people concentrate on themselves rather than each other. The phenomena of sex vs making love is the difference between taking and giving. Those that are takers alienate their partners. Most men have no knowledge of how to please Women and worse they think they do.. They would be mistaken and big surprise their partners become uninterested in participating so they go and play with themselves instead of fixing the problem. Half of all marriages end in divorce. That is a damning fact - and it could be changed.

Allow me to state the obvious - there are a whole lot worse things a couple can do than make love but there are few things that are BETTER. Notice I said MAKE LOVE not HAVE SEX - I am implying that the proceedings contain the key element of being MUTUALLY SATISFYING. So with this said and the VAST majority of people in AGREEMENT with the statement and proviso of mutual satisfaction then please tell me why is there so little of this VERY honourable activity taking place AND what are WE prepared to DO about it to make sure that a whole lot more takes PLACE which is the POINT HERE. How do we get the gadgets turned off and the spouses turned ON? Lets see - watch TV or make love to my Wife? To me this is an EASY call to make.

Well look at this as leadership by example. This is the very reason to discuss it in a forum such as this. I do not do so to boast - that has no point what so ever but to suggest that couples focus on the forces that attracted them to one another in the first instance. If they are honest - the attraction was in large part physical. I am very much attracted to my Wife and she knows it and we both benefit greatly by this. I insist that she experiences bliss and fulfillment - that is because making love is about giving pleasure not taking it.

your answers don't really match the question. its either how often or when was the last time. Cant mix them in like that. Maybe someone is in the habit of every day, but their partner is deployed and its been more than a month. Or someone that has sex less than once a month, and it just happened to be today. I know I'm focusing on the wrong thing, but I just couldn't stop myself

Gee, people aren't getting laid nearly often enough. No wonder civilization as we know it is collapsing all around us.

I haven't had sewx since I got a abrass removed from my anus. That was about 3 years now

Not sure what an Abrass is but my most sincere sympathies...

Looks like you are a mentor

An abrass is another names for boils.

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