When was the last time you got laid? Solo does NOT count.

The divorce rate in marriage is 50% - which correlates to the percentage of those who are NOT getting laid regularly. Porn, masturbation inside committed relationships, infidelity - and yes Divorce are fuelled by people who do not get enough sex inside their relationship.

Stable, successful marriages INCLUDE regular mutually satisfying sexual activity. My ONE and only rule is that she gets there first and I am pretty relentless in my pursuit of this. My Wife enjoys herself and a Woman who enjoys herself and has this as a reasonable expectation tends to want to participate more frequently than one that does not have this expectation.

My Wife decided years ago that we would make love each morning - every day. Now I am not saying that it has to be every day, hell I never in my wildest fantasy dreamed as much but a two to three times a week there is nothing wrong with either. My Wife's point is that she likes it and there is no good reason NOT to make love every day and every good reason to do so.

The point being that the world would be a whole lot better off with this problem fixed. For the record I don not look at porn, I do not masturbate and I am totally monogamous and faithful and we have been together for close to thirty years. All we are doing is being true to the forces that attracted us to one another in the first place. To us nothing has changed.