When was the last time you got laid? Solo does NOT count.

True enough but I could not change the group title - I had to go with what existed. Regularity and Frequency are the issues I was trying to convey and to make the point about. Yes life intervenes and a deployment is a terrible burden upon a family who make the sacrifices of separation, service, economic deprivation and at times injury either temporary or permanent and even destruction through loss. These are factors beyond personal control but the losses occur also when they are in control and people concentrate on themselves rather than each other. The phenomena of sex vs making love is the difference between taking and giving. Those that are takers alienate their partners. Most men have no knowledge of how to please Women and worse they think they do.. They would be mistaken and big surprise their partners become uninterested in participating so they go and play with themselves instead of fixing the problem. Half of all marriages end in divorce. That is a damning fact - and it could be changed.