I Need to Say Something

A lot of the older men are unstable af on here. (Im sure plenty older women too, but they never try to interact with me so I wouldn’t know) A dead give away are the ones who have a large interest in minors and the girls who are barely 18. Them showing an interest in girls that young is them already showing their true colors.

Majority of them are single and lonely for a reason. They give you this pity story about their lonely pathetic lives and expect you to pity them when really they’re only telling you half the story.

I’m laughing so hard right now. I have a man pissed at me right now cause I won’t. Talk to him because...

He sends the same dog pic in the morning hiding his bum boob

He likes to talk to other men about their wives and pictures and fantasize of them screwing the wife.

He wants to flirt with everybody on here

He cyberfucks everybody on here

He’s a serial cheater in real life.

I called him sleazy. He got pissed and said I hurt his heart. 😂

Never understood lashing out online.

You venting is natural and healthy.

These people have deep past experiences that clearly need professional help learning how to cope.

It's not just men either. 😔 Both genders suffer from bad tempers or entitlement issues.

This is scary Alex. You are a beautiful, intelligent, funny young woman. Lonely (and horny) guys are going to flock to you and not all will stop with blocking when you rebuff them. Be careful.

That happens to most women on this site, or so I've come to understand. I've even been chatted up then blocked by a diaper man. Go figure.

There are people who start out on this site with an agenda: To satisfy their sexual desires. To get hard and imagine online strangers with them, making them feel like they're big papas. If someone goes along with it, they feel fiercely validated. (I promise you, many of these men are on Craigslist looking for young hookups. I also promise you some of the grossest people I've ever had comments from I met here.) But these men are not men. They're grown boys. They cannot handle rejection, which they're not even used to getting because they don't try in real life, so they lash out in a tall tantrum. They blame the lady who kindly (or coarsely) turned them down, and then they make sure they have the last word in a cowardly way: by blocking them.

I'm glad I don't get these so much now. I'm in my early 30's, I've changed my filters, and I've been here long enough that the initial "attraction" from jerks isn't at play.
You, my dear, are young, open, decent, and beautiful. I hope that backbone of yours is nice and strong, because you'll be getting these unfortunate messages for some time. Don't forget, there's no shame in deleting or blocking. Don't allow yourself to feel badly for protecting yourself from potential creeps.

Also, keep in mind, so many people whether introverted or extroverted are truly sweet and kind-hearted, whether they're looking for more or not. I can't imagine you losing sight of that, though. You've only ever been fair, if not more than.

Cheers, Lan! Don't let these things define how you feel. You're a wonderful young lady whom I've only ever seen wish others well. That's very rare, chica. 🤗🖤

Entitlement runs rampant on the internet. Mostly from men but sometimes from women too. Makes me wonder how they deal with being told no irl.

Why were you talking to him in the first place, my sweet little angel...? Beautiful and intelligent goddess like you should know better when they are overly sweet and complimentary right off the bat like that...my gorgeous Asian porcelain doll....😘😘😘💕💕💕😂😂😂

I don't think this is entirely fair.

Now.... REPLY TO MY MESSAGES YOU BITCH!!😠

🤭🤭🤭

Old men for you but ergh!!! old women who are horny are worse especially in person (Bleh)

[i][c=#BF0080]He did that to me too and others 😂 I didn’t open his first message within a minute, how dare I..

A friend suggested this post was about another guy who just did similar minus the drop dead part. He messaged and I tried to be nice and he said I just realized you didn’t reply to me on June 10th. I saw the last reply was him saying you’re welcome and I told him he confused me with someone else. He told me no and wrote a paragraph and blocked me LMAO 😆 It must be him afraid of getting reported again 😒 [/c][/i]

It seems totally insane though that a guy would act this way. It probably explains why women that i talk to seem relieved if they haven't messaged me back for a few days or weeks and that i haven't had a melt down 😂.

I'm totally fine with being messaged whenever or if someone loses interest, that's fine too,

I've come to realise that these kind don't think of us as actual people. They think of us as objects instead.

Wow that’s pathetic, I feel sorry for the lad.

I think that little boy needs to consult his parents on how to talk to and respect women. He ain't no adult, that's for sure.

A hole!! Those are exactly the type that ruin for the nice guys.

Sorry

This happens to me a lot 😂🤦‍♀️

😂read this post.
🤔made a guess of who this could be.....

😂BINGO! YEP!
🙄chum🙄 he read me the same riot act and blocked me

I was devastated 😂😂😂😂
NOT!

I'm interested to know who this is. What a horrible person..😥 How truly a disgusting way to speak to a young woman on the internet. You should out him, report him, he should be banned or at least WARNED.

and also...

I've experienced similar behaviour in the past on EP. The most interesting was a guy who told me he was going to beat me up and kill me, beat me again, then bury me and then later he was going to dig me up to beat the shit out of me again.
I too went from being "a dream woman" to being blocked. He started all the hate as I wouldn't add him to my circle because actually I felt he was "unhinged" and possibly could be a stalker.... LOL

The internet brings out the true nature of some people. Would he say that to someone he meets on the street? hell no. So why does he feel the need to do that here. Be thankful he blocked you and move on. He's not worth a response.

I tend to think guys like that have an entitled sense of instant gratification and have the idea of deserving something for spending any time on anyone...not to mention a high strung temper problem.🙄

Gee, shocker. You didn't respond fast enough to his fantasies and those sweet names turned sour real fast huh? Fakeness, you gotta love it 😏😂

Hahaha Some people need to understand there's life outside of here.

Social contact is rare for some individuals and so they're hurried & needy & wanton & greedy & pushy & clueless & impatient as to how to achieve their goal of intimate companionship.

They try overly hard to imitate complicated rituals, that they've seen portrayed in movies & TV, without understanding prerequisites of normal civil & romantic societal interface mores.

In other words they are just stupidly trying what little they have figured out, that kinda worked before.

Loneliness and isolation makes people do strange and desperate things.
As a result the emotions ate extreme.
Extreme love turns to extreme hate.
Unfortunately it is a cycle that he will face. Because intrinsically he is sad and unhappy.
Watching people here it is equally applicable across both men an women. You probably see it more because you are at the coal face.

There are a bunch of guys on here that do that. Report him and move on. He's not worth giving any thought or time to.

Hey girl... We so need to talk about this. I have to go now, but I'll be messaging you later ... probably like tonight.

My sincerest apologies from all "older men" out here. We're not ALL as pathetic as your recent experience.

That has happened before...and when I told the guy I was married the conversation just halted right there 🤣.

Yeah, and some of these men wonder why they are single!

How dare you thwart his plans!
😝

Who is this fucktard?

I think I've been kind towards you sometimes, a little facetious with language that could bridge upon being flirty but nowhere near what you describe. Tell me if I'm wrong.

I was 39 when I turned down a 20 year old at the bar. Trust me in a way that was hard and easy ;)

You're the love of my life in an alternate dimension. Where we are the cuteness for our overlord cats.

Does anyone have a piece of gum? I think I need to chum. 🤮🤮

I'm so sorry you had this awful experience. The members here are a slice of real society and you will meet all kinds in both places. It's up to you to focus on the kind and sweet people and avoid and forget the toxic ones.

He was probably very horny and frustrated. No need to behave like that though If an old man compliments you just tell him to f*** off. He probably only wants some sort of sexual relief..... by the way did I ever mention how gorgeous you are ? I could gaze into your eyes forever.....

I'm one of the oldest on here and I don't do these things you have mentioned...I show respect to most of the women on here, except a couple that have acted like the person you are talking about...a good post and I understand why you put it on here...

To me it seems there are people here of all genders and ages who don't have decent social skills, and/or have no real lives and similate life here. The meanness, snarkiness and overall lack of compassion brings the site down.

Golden rule: Please.

He was insulting your intelligence by thinking he can just compliment you and you would fall for it right off the bat. I guess he thinks women are stupid and can be easily manipulated. When he doesn't get what he wants, his true self shines through.