I Need to Say Something

That happens to most women on this site, or so I've come to understand. I've even been chatted up then blocked by a diaper man. Go figure.

There are people who start out on this site with an agenda: To satisfy their sexual desires. To get hard and imagine online strangers with them, making them feel like they're big papas. If someone goes along with it, they feel fiercely validated. (I promise you, many of these men are on Craigslist looking for young hookups. I also promise you some of the grossest people I've ever had comments from I met here.) But these men are not men. They're grown boys. They cannot handle rejection, which they're not even used to getting because they don't try in real life, so they lash out in a tall tantrum. They blame the lady who kindly (or coarsely) turned them down, and then they make sure they have the last word in a cowardly way: by blocking them.

I'm glad I don't get these so much now. I'm in my early 30's, I've changed my filters, and I've been here long enough that the initial "attraction" from jerks isn't at play.
You, my dear, are young, open, decent, and beautiful. I hope that backbone of yours is nice and strong, because you'll be getting these unfortunate messages for some time. Don't forget, there's no shame in deleting or blocking. Don't allow yourself to feel badly for protecting yourself from potential creeps.

Also, keep in mind, so many people whether introverted or extroverted are truly sweet and kind-hearted, whether they're looking for more or not. I can't imagine you losing sight of that, though. You've only ever been fair, if not more than.

Cheers, Lan! Don't let these things define how you feel. You're a wonderful young lady whom I've only ever seen wish others well. That's very rare, chica. 🤗🖤