I Believe Consent Is Vital In A Relationship

My sir and I've a rule. Consent must ALWAYS be given.

If we are under the influence consent can NOT be given.

No consent = no play. time.

Ernie, my partner of 15 years, has always said that everything in our relationship should be freely given. He says that Fidelity makes a great gift to your partner in a relationship but it must always be freely given. He says that I cannot cheat on him because if there is something that I want to do, he wants me to do it. We both have the freedom to do what we want but we don't use it. He enjoys having this freedom even though he doesn't use it. To me it really doesn't matter because I don't want anybody else and don't intend to. He says we always want to do the things we can't and don't want to do the things that we have to do. And that all should be freely given at all times. Does that make sense to you? I didn't understand it at first but it seems to be working for us. Birdie 😊

good to remember...though many younger men have trouble with this stuff...

Absolutely, I agree. I think this problem at least partially arises from the fact that we think and act like we can take ownership of people. You are mine so you have to do this. Or you are mine so you can't do that.

I believe we are spiritual beings having a human experience and you can't own spirit. And spirits function best when they are happy joyous and free.

Of course. It goes without saying.

With married couples in good relationships there can be some flexibility.

@Sorceress thanks for your kindness

Can you edit your typo, it's driving me nuts.

@JammieDodgerHeart
I am so glad to find you reading this, and that very long otherone, about power.
I try to be clear and infomative

But what if she WANTS to be passed out and then fucked?

or want to shout NO NO NO NO!

Okay... How do you feel about consent being withdrawn AFTER the act has been completed? Say, days, weeks, or even months later...

AND

What if both parties are too drunk to make good decisions?

Hmmm, maybe that time spent in the slammer had some benefit after all!

ENTHUSIASM! the ONLY way to go

Agreed