I Believe Consent Is Vital In A Relationship
[big]Consent must be
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1) [b]Awake[/b], As in, not asleep, passed our or otherwise unconscious.
2) [b]Aware,[/b] As in, not so drunk, drugged or exhausted, as to be unable to make good decisions.
3) [b]Specific[/b]. You MAY do this, you may NOT do that.
4) [b]Revocable[/b]. You might have said yes 100 times, but no can be invoked and revoked at any time with no reason given.
5) [b]Enthusiastic.[/b] Yes must be genuine, "Oh Okay, go ahead" means, you have been pressured, and can't resist further.
Anything else is Not consent, it is predatory.
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1) [b]Awake[/b], As in, not asleep, passed our or otherwise unconscious.
2) [b]Aware,[/b] As in, not so drunk, drugged or exhausted, as to be unable to make good decisions.
3) [b]Specific[/b]. You MAY do this, you may NOT do that.
4) [b]Revocable[/b]. You might have said yes 100 times, but no can be invoked and revoked at any time with no reason given.
5) [b]Enthusiastic.[/b] Yes must be genuine, "Oh Okay, go ahead" means, you have been pressured, and can't resist further.
Anything else is Not consent, it is predatory.
