I Am a Virgin All my friends have already lost their virginity and have been putting pressure...

SW-User

I think your friends are uncertain about their choices and want you to have sex, so that they can feel better about having had sex

aztecwolf · 26-30, M

Tell me about it. I work in the army and everyone in my platoon bugs me about it. Keeps talking about buying me a whore. Wish they'd back off though. I want it to mean something with someone I love.

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

[c=#4C0073]you will regret it. Wait until you find someone who cares about your pleasure. [/c]

SW-User

I don't think you want to lose your virginity. I think you want to give it to someone you love and trust, and who you know is going to respect you, and treat you with all the tenderness and kindness you deserve. It's not a race to the finish line. The first one to lose their virginity is not necessarily a winner. Take your time, and you will be glad you did.

Breathingeasy · M

You have all the time in the world. Do not cave in to peer pressure . You and your heart will tell you when it is the right time. It is not about the physical act to lose your virginity, it is about the enjoyment of the act of loving .

pianoisland · 31-35, M

DONT RUSH IT! Sex can be great, having sex just to lose virginity, not so great. Wait until you feel rather turned on for a certain someone, then make moves to have sex with them. It doesn't matter who you lose your v-card to, you will still feel some connection to them.

The first time I had sex was miserable because I just wanted to lose my virginity, I wish I waited. There is nothing special about your virginal status, tell your friends to shut it. Wait for someone who gets your blood pumping.

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

Wait to do it when you want to. If your friends keep pressuring you,there not really friends.

AvGeek · 31-35, M

It's yours. You chose the time, the person, etc. Tell them to back tf off. They just jealous cuz you're being smarter about it. There aren't too many things you can't count on in this life but one thing's for sure - sex n guys/girls aren't going anywhere. There's absolutely no rush. You have other more important business to attend and don't need that emotional didtraction. Nows the time to focus on that other business. Now. Not later.

You're doing the right thing. Tell your friends to get off your back.

PhoenixPhail · M

Don't make it such a big deal. And above all, don't do it until YOU'RE ready. Never mind what your friends say, and don't let them put pressure on you. It's your body and your life. I think you're very smart to hold off until you feel a special connection with someone. Okay? When it's the right time for you, you'll know it.

pianoisland · 31-35, M

@Faerylight

100% agree!

FootballLife · M

It's even worse to give your virginity to someone who you don't have a connection with. Cuz then you'll always know that they took it. Give it to someone who cares about you and who you care about. And don't give it up easy. Ur friends are really being horrible trying to get u to do that

olderdad · 56-60, M

Sex is communication. Don't fall into the trap of "he knows what to do"!! Every woman responds differently. Find a man who is not in a hurry and patient enough to let you show you what you really want and how you want it.

th3r0n · 41-45, M

Please don't, an honorable man would find marrying a virgin to be something beyond special and value you far above rubies, don't ruin that over peer pressure please!

Teirdalin · 31-35

I'm 24 and still a virgin; and I don't see what the problem possibly is. Quite frankly I'd rather be with someone who hasn't been with every other guy ever.

Inthedankshadows · 46-50, M

just give it to a stranger
get it over with hun
a older experienced guy so his tongue can make u wet so doesnt hurt too much

SW-User

If you're not ready then you're not ready. You'll regret it if you give into peer peessure. Wait until you're ready on your own time.

sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M

Lmfao, lame.