I Am a Virgin

All my friends have already lost their virginity and have been putting pressure on me to lose mine as well. I'm not completely opposed to it but I'm worried that I'll end up regretting it or that my inexperience will just be a turn off for the other person. I don't have a boyfriend either, and it would feel wrong to just lose it to a stranger, but my friends have said it's easiest losing it to someone you don't feel too much of a connection to, because it won't be as bad if you break up with the person you lost it to or something? I'm just very lost.

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AvGeek · 31-35, M

It's yours. You chose the time, the person, etc. Tell them to back tf off. They just jealous cuz you're being smarter about it. There aren't too many things you can't count on in this life but one thing's for sure - sex n guys/girls aren't going anywhere. There's absolutely no rush. You have other more important business to attend and don't need that emotional didtraction. Nows the time to focus on that other business. Now. Not later.

You're doing the right thing. Tell your friends to get off your back.