I Am a Virgin

All my friends have already lost their virginity and have been putting pressure on me to lose mine as well. I'm not completely opposed to it but I'm worried that I'll end up regretting it or that my inexperience will just be a turn off for the other person. I don't have a boyfriend either, and it would feel wrong to just lose it to a stranger, but my friends have said it's easiest losing it to someone you don't feel too much of a connection to, because it won't be as bad if you break up with the person you lost it to or something? I'm just very lost.

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pianoisland · 31-35, M

DONT RUSH IT! Sex can be great, having sex just to lose virginity, not so great. Wait until you feel rather turned on for a certain someone, then make moves to have sex with them. It doesn't matter who you lose your v-card to, you will still feel some connection to them.

The first time I had sex was miserable because I just wanted to lose my virginity, I wish I waited. There is nothing special about your virginal status, tell your friends to shut it. Wait for someone who gets your blood pumping.