I Am a Virgin

All my friends have already lost their virginity and have been putting pressure on me to lose mine as well. I'm not completely opposed to it but I'm worried that I'll end up regretting it or that my inexperience will just be a turn off for the other person. I don't have a boyfriend either, and it would feel wrong to just lose it to a stranger, but my friends have said it's easiest losing it to someone you don't feel too much of a connection to, because it won't be as bad if you break up with the person you lost it to or something? I'm just very lost.

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PhoenixPhail · M

Don't make it such a big deal. And above all, don't do it until YOU'RE ready. Never mind what your friends say, and don't let them put pressure on you. It's your body and your life. I think you're very smart to hold off until you feel a special connection with someone. Okay? When it's the right time for you, you'll know it.