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Why do you want to get married one day?

You can happily live your life with your partner without it. So what are your reasons?

For those who are already married, why did you get married?
ginnyfromtheblock26-30, F
im a lawyer i love signing contracts
TexChikF
I am a Christian and I am a romantic. I wanted to stand up before God and profess my love and loyalty to my husband. The best decision of my life deserved a nice ceremony.
ABCDEF7M
It's not about living happily. It's sort of social promise, and also has legal relevance in most countries.

When you and him/her value your relationship and want to be considered as couple with some promises towards each other and children in the society, you get married. When you both value the relationship so much that you want the relationship to get a legal recognition, you get married.

It's not just about living happily, It's about showing your commitment to the society & law. When your commitment is not between just two of you, when the whole society & law recognizes it, it is called marriage. If you live somewhere where there is no society and law, like in forests, you need not to marry.

The human chemistry is unpredictable. Someday you or (s)he may not be that much happily aligned to the other, there are ups & downs in human behaviour, mood, preferences, likes, dislikes, attractions, hormones, etc.. Then it will be bit easier to break a promise given to individual without any witnesses, marriage is also concerned about future of children.
ABCDEF7M
@NerdyPotato Thanks for the way you understood the things. I guess there is some misinterpretation.

Yes they can take some more time before they decide. And it would definitely be good. But what if they, or one of them don't want to take any time? As I said,

"The human chemistry is unpredictable. Someday you or (s)he may not be that much happily aligned to the other, there are ups & downs in human behaviour, mood, preferences, likes, dislikes, attractions, hormones, etc.. Then it will be bit easier to break a promise given to individual without any witnesses...

one day you feel not living with a person(and you takes the decision), another day you feels (s)he is a lovely person. Marriage gives you time to think over it before taking a decision."..
NerdyPotatoM
@ABCDEF7 That's true. If people aren't mature enough to think it over without being forced by the law, then marriage is good safeguard.
ABCDEF7M
@NerdyPotato Sometimes they are not matured enough, sometimes they can be under some other influence.
ExtremeNext31-35
So I can kill him in his sleep and get his $$$$
Menetics26-30, F
@ExtremeNext Good luck spending those moolah in prison 馃槀
ExtremeNext31-35
@Menetics I know people who can make it look an accident 馃憖
bugeye26-30, F
i've know people pay upwards of 15-20K on a wedding between dress, venue and catering. that's the price of a marital home or can be put by for emergencies. my dream wedding is going to the office, signing the marriage licence and hitting the pub for the night.

i'm not about to spend years of savings on what is essentially a party that lasts one day.
Menetics26-30, F
@bugeye That鈥檚 what I told my partner. I just want a courtroom wedding and the money that is supposed to be for the wedding will be put down for our future home.
SW-User
everyone wants the fairytale but nobody wants to help the poor fairies build their little world so the fairies gave up on the lazy buggers... the end.
SW-User
I feel major anxiety if I even think of it bc its such a big deal to everyone around me; I really hope society stops pressurising ppl to get married 馃檮
PortugalDreams36-40, C
I would like to get married. Partly for the sake of tradition but also to have a celebration entirely dedicated to the love I might share with someone. Weddings are the one happy occasion where I get to see family and friends all together having a good time. The only other time they're all together is funerals and they're not exactly happy.
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Tastyfrzz61-69, M
Marriage is an unworkable construct.
DDonde31-35, M
I don't. If it happens, it happens and I'll be happy about it, but it's not like a goal.
Jill199031-35, F
I wanted to have children, and something was missing in my life - I really wanted to belong. It鈥檚 not perfect but I鈥檓 not sorry I got married.
NerdyPotatoM
I'm not particularly interested in that. Maybe if the right woman wanted that, I'd go along, but it doesn't add anything to a relationship for me personally.
Meatboy18-21, M
Makes it more official, plus getting engaged is such a beautiful thing. Marriage is just wonderful
eMortalM
To make sure your partner doesn鈥檛 easily get rid of you! 馃槀
btchstfuF
this is an interesting question but i dont have the answer
I will probably not make it to that stage.
I seriously don't have any clue.
SW-User
I was young and idealistic
Beatbox3431-35, M
I don't want to.
Keepitsimple51-55, F
I was pregnant.
FreeSpirit151-55, F
I don't 馃憤
IWasCallingYaLarry26-30, M
I don't and I never plan to be married, either. No thanks.

 
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