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Honest opinions needed

If there is a very tall, large/chubby (but not super curvy) woman, and she dresses very feminine (dresses, heels, garters, etc), does it seem to make her more feminine, or more like a man in a dress who is trying hard to "pass" as a woman?

What are your honest thoughts?
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SW-User
It's all about the attitude. If you feel it, be it.
QueenPeach · 26-30, F
It makes you a feminine woman, feminine women aren't just one shape. They come in all shapes, femininity is your vibe how you dress how you act. 💓
HoeBag · 51-55, F
More feminine I think.

If someone goes through effort to look good, people will appreciate that.

A lot of people dress sloppy so if someone is decked out, it doesn't really matter about their build, they still look nice.
Dicey · 31-35, F
What's the alternative? To not dress in a feminine way in order not to look like a "man in a dress"? That seems counterintuitive to me.

Nah, I say, be feminine and dress like a girl if that's what feels natural to you :)
Trippy · F
Who we are shouldn't depend upon accessories. The heart dresses itself.
@Trippy Always.
Trippy · F
@JustGoneNow Absolutely❤
SW-User
you have feminine features so you will always look womanly
@SW-User What makes you think she's talking about herself?
SW-User
@quitwhendone the nature of this site
@SW-User Because you’re perceptive. Good to see you, my friend. Much love. 🖤🤗
Kathysback · 36-40, F
I vote more feminine.
Everyone is different and femininity comes more from within than from the outer covering.
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zeeva70 · F
I would think she loves dressing up to help her feel good.
Danerol · 36-40, M
That she's a very feminine women dressing in what makes her feel comfortable. Which is very attractive feature.
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
I think it really depends on how "feminine" she is to begin with.

Demeanor > Size/Appearance
Is this a man or a woman?
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@quitwhendone no I knew what you meant lol. I'm just shocked to see a guy actually into tall women.
HoeBag · 51-55, F
@DearAmbellina2113 Men are not as picky about a woman's looks as the world seems to believe.
bookerdana · M
@DearAmbellina2113 I am attracted to tall woman
MrsRachelEvans · 31-35, F
More feminine to me.
MrsRachelEvans · 31-35, F
Much more feminine I think.
I probably wouldn’t be giving the person enough attention to make an evaluation.
@bijouxbroussard That’s why I love you. That’s why I chose you to be my Auntie. You’re special. 🖤🤗
@bijouxbroussard Who else can love me when I ugly cry. 🖤🤗

InstructHer · 61-69, M
More feminine. Dresses, heels, stockings and suspenders are the way to go.
I just be me. My drummer from my first band used to call me a dude with boobs, because I think like a guy a lot of the time. Labels suck. Just be you.
@HoeBag Made me chuckle, cause I’m gay. lol
HoeBag · 51-55, F
@JustGoneNow One thing I have noticed with a lot of lesbian women though - their overall appearance is often a little more masculine than straight women. Not just the way they might dress but just maybe a bit more of their shape and everything.

My lesbian room mate kind of has a tom boy look.

Of course with transgender (mtf or ftm), we are often cursed with an "ideal" body of our birth gender. I look like a linebacker in a dress and I have an FTM friend who has hips that I would kill for.
@HoeBag I’m a bit what they call a lipstick lesbian. Facial wise I’m way too cutesy to ever be mistaken for a boy.
MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F
Well you look like a chick to me. For what it’s worth.
SW-User
Depends on how effeminate the man is. I've some some men who make very convincing and even pretty women.
SW-User
@DearAmbellina2113 Some drag queens are probably more beautiful than many women. I've seen Thai boys so much prettier than the average woman.
HoeBag · 51-55, F
@DearAmbellina2113 You been down on yourself for a few days now about your appearance, did something happen?

I mean my opinion of your looks is - classy and pretty. Did someone tell you otherwise?
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@HoeBag Nothing in particular happened, I'm just fully aware of how I look and vocal about it. Lol
Chrislee69 · 46-50, M
It would make her more feminine for sure, and curves are so so sexy!
gamingnerd · 31-35, M
its make her feminine for sure
SW-User
Feminine in my opinion. I like tall women and I love women in heels 👠 😍
SW-User
I think size has nothing to do with determining wether you look more like a lady or a man.
Fuck society and it’s bullshit expectations.
Viper · M
She's a women! Man ain't got nothing on her! She's more feminine, those it starts in her head and feeling good! Which is very feminine, none any of the old grumpy ass men!

 
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