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Honest opinions needed

If there is a very tall, large/chubby (but not super curvy) woman, and she dresses very feminine (dresses, heels, garters, etc), does it seem to make her more feminine, or more like a man in a dress who is trying hard to "pass" as a woman?

What are your honest thoughts?
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I just be me. My drummer from my first band used to call me a dude with boobs, because I think like a guy a lot of the time. Labels suck. Just be you.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@JustGoneNow "dude with boobs" is exactly how I feel.
@DearAmbellina2113 I’m 6’1” with small boobs, very little curve, and basically no ass. I look like a goofy tall 14 year old pretty boy with small boobs. It is what it is. Just be you. 🦋

@DearAmbellina2113 You're both feminine and attractive. (My opinion.)
HoeBag · 51-55, F
@JustGoneNow and @DearAmbellina2113

Women come in many shapes and sizes. What people often forget is that the "ideal" shape and size is pretty rare anyways. Where does society even get this standard of "ideal" anyways?

One thing I read somewhere and it is kind of funny and true -
Women are seen as a collection of body parts but men are seen as an entire person.

There might be those rare men who are worried about their flabby thighs or whatever though.
@HoeBag Made me chuckle, cause I’m gay. lol
HoeBag · 51-55, F
@JustGoneNow One thing I have noticed with a lot of lesbian women though - their overall appearance is often a little more masculine than straight women. Not just the way they might dress but just maybe a bit more of their shape and everything.

My lesbian room mate kind of has a tom boy look.

Of course with transgender (mtf or ftm), we are often cursed with an "ideal" body of our birth gender. I look like a linebacker in a dress and I have an FTM friend who has hips that I would kill for.
@HoeBag I’m a bit what they call a lipstick lesbian. Facial wise I’m way too cutesy to ever be mistaken for a boy.