I Wish I Didn't Have Emotions

Oh, honey. The people who will be kind if you ask them will be kind if you don't ask them. The other kind will see "victim."

that would be pretty dank

Hi Lilangel. These are tough times. And life is stinky if not crummy sometimes. (Feel free to use stronger words if you will). And on top of that our emotions don’t always work in a “logical” way. Sometimes we break don in tears, other times we are filled with anger. Other times we feel lost. To FEEL is to be Human. There is nothing wrong with that.

The key is for us to GUIDE and Rein our emotions NOT to have total control over them. That means when you are in pain, find safety and cry out the pain. We can’t ignore it and we CAN’T suppress it. That will screw us up so bad. We can’t NOT be sad or it will build and build and build until we can’t take it anymore. Doing this will take care of natural and periodic sadness.

But for chronic sadness and pain, there are other things you can do too. Find someway to lift up your soul. Church works for a lot of ppl. Music works for others. Cooking and prayer for me. Something constructive in your spare time to help you know you are doing something worthwhile.

In any case we will be rooting for you.

There's nothing wrong with admitting that you struggle. There's nothing wrong with being sad. There's only something wrong with trying to be happy when you honestly need to be sad. Sometimes we need to be sad. Life sometimes pushes us far beyond what we can handle with and sometimes nothing happens to pull us back into a zone where we can be happy. It's so painful to be in that zone and I'm honestly saddened to hear that you're stuck in it. If there is anything I can do to help I am more than happy to do it. We all need someone who cares about us to invest in us. We all need a shoulder to cry on and we all need someone who will drop what they are doing and will be there when you need them. You deserve to be happy and at peace. Pain will ease over time and I'm happy to do what I can to ease your pain. The worst thing about suffering and pain is going through it alone.

Often the problem is that as individuals we have different preferences, yet we are all told that we should want/need the same things. Trying to live someone else's dream might lead to these kinds of persistent feelings. I discovered a long time ago that the kind of women that most other guys seem to want will always disappoint me, for example. I have not been able to find the kind that I do want, however.

I shall always be kind to you, and maybe try to make you smile even, it would be a treat to see you become impervious to the world's badness, and keep those emotions, what you have now will be transformed but still essentially the same when much much less bothers you. ((hugs))

Sending love and good thoughts....hope you are doing ok

Sad as in something has you down or sad as in depression?

You are a grown up now. 😐

I understand you. And I know how it feels

Sending hugs my little friend..🤗🤗🤗🤗